As a divorced woman in her 40's, I knew I would have to be proactive to find men.
I had maintained a better than the average figure, am 5'8", and my best asset is my breasts. I enjoy displaying them when possible and have found men attracted to me merely because of their size.
After my divorce, I had several of the husbands of mutual friends approach me seeking sex. I turned all of them down. Their wives supported me in the bad times, and I wasn't going to let my sexual wants ruin our friendships.
I dated a few men, had sex with all of them but found them lacking in what I wanted. I ended each of the relationships myself.
Through a period of trial and error, I have the developed what I feel is my best approach to find my sexual pleasure.
I hope you find my method works for you.
Good luck.
I started frequenting lounges and bars in various hotels in my city. I would go in after work, during "Happy Hour' and sit at the bar to scoop out the possibilities.
Most men are there to met friends, but several are in town on business. This group is my objective. I will look over the crowd, sometimes using the bar's mirror to assist me, and once I find a possiblity, making eye contact, I smile. If he returned my smile, I would flirt with him until he approaches me.
I will ask if he's 'local,' and if he says he's in town on business, I will tell him I hope he can have an eventual evening.
We will exchange information, usually full of misleading information, and eventually get around to him purchasing drinks for us. Usually, the bar will be packed, and he will have to stand by me while I am seated on a barstool.
If he glances at my cleavage, I will eventually tell him I enjoy being admired, especially my breasts. Usually, my new friend will comment on my boobs, and the conversation will take a turn to a sexual nature.
I will brush my boob frequently against his arm, and if he responds favorably, I usually place my hand on his body. By this time, he knows I'm approachable for his pleasure.
Oh, am I!
I will ask if he has a room in the hotel and if he does, all the better.