Sometimes we might wonder what our lover really wants and what pleasures him the most. The following is one way to please your loverβ¦the intimate act of fellatio. The presumptions are that the receiver is male, the locale the bedroom.
As you are caressing and kissing your lover, move over to his ear, your lips brushing him, and whisper to him explicitly what your are going to do. Knowing, then waiting will stimulate and tease him some.
Move lower, stop, and pay attention to his neck while your hand softly touches his chest. Pause a moment, then kiss his chest in places while your hand(s) moves south. Do not touch his cock at this time. You can touch lightly his thighs, and around him, gently massaging. Kiss and tease your way down him until you are close enough to gently blow on him. Knowing you are so close yet not touching will raise the anticipation level for him.
Get yourself in a comfortable position, either next to him or between his legs. This is your choice, after all, you are in control. Gently touch his balls with your fingers, massaging them, rubbing them. Use your other hand to run your fingers up and down his shaft. If he is soft, this is sure to get him hard! Making the sign of "OK" with your thumb and index finger, start stroking his shaft. Do not touch his head.
(By the way, guys; hygiene is really important here. Also, do some pubic trimming or even shaving. Your lover will appreciate this!)