Dear Jamie: Apartment Cuc

This is an entry for the 750 Word Project 2025

Dear Jamie,

I'm sharing an amazing condo with my best friend just minutes away from work, shops, bars and transit, but have found a major issue with her boyfriend.

Chet (not his real name) is a great guy, and while its awesome having him around helping with chores and dinner- I'm finding it increasingly difficult to ignore this one particular thing.

Chet is a nudist.

And he's been growing more and more comfortable being naked in the apartment when I'm around.

My bestie had given me a heads up and made sure I was chill with it, and Chet just kinda started shedding clothes over the months until it was normal for him to be tidying up while swinging hog.

I'd said I was cool with it initially because I'd been in locker rooms, I've been naked with other guys, and I'm straight and fairly well endowed (I am bigger than Chet at least), but lately I've been having these weird feelings.

While nobody is doing anything, like making moves or shit- I've slowly begun to feel like I'm being dominated, and I dont friggin' get it!

I'm clothed, my friend is clothed, and Chet is completely naked... and doing chores. He's our naked house maid, yet for some reason I feel like such an incredible cuck... and I'm beginning to get turned on by it all.

Deep down I'm jealous of Chet. I sit around and steal glances at him just lounging on the couch and think, man that would feel great wouldn't it? To be so confident in the nude, to be balls out around friends like "I don't fucking care at all".

Sometimes I can tell when he's just had sex, and I can see his soft cock glistening and I just get hard being that close to his freedom.

It just feels so weird to be clothed and safe and secure, yet so diminished.

In some ways its kinda like I reveal more about my insecurities with the clothes I put on, than if I got up on the coffee table during a dinner party and stripped naked.

What do you think? What should I do about these feelings?

Dear AC,

That's definitely an interesting predicament.

I do want to congratulate you for being open enough with both your roommate and her boyfriend to let him express himself through nudity. Most, if not all nudists will remind you that nudity itself is not inherently sexual and amongst accepting individuals can be a fun and comfortable way to live.

I would say your issue can be looked at in two ways- one, you're discovering something about your own body and self that you'd like to explore. To which I say "go for it!". Spend more time in places where nudity is accepted, change rooms, saunas, or nude beaches. Feel your way out with these experiences and see where you may be comfortable going bare.

Perhaps at some point you can sit down with your roommate and Chet and tell them he's inspired you, and how you'd like to also experiment with nudity around the condo. They may accept the idea OR reconsider the flexibility around clothes that Chet has enjoyed.

On the other hand, you may be developing sexual feelings for Chet and or your roommate -what with nudity bringing to mind all the usual sexual connotations. It doesn't have to be about homosexual interests per se as you may just enjoy seeing a naked person, or enjoy the shame of gawking while dressed. There may even be a residual excitement being around a naked person, because it typically means you too will soon be naked and sexual activity is about to happen. Your continued cover may just be a constant tease for your overstimulated brain.

In that particular instance, I'd say to respect Chet and your roommate and do not make them part of your developing kink. Its important to take Chet's nudity at face value as non-sexual, and not to try to change that. Of course, if they make a move...

So as a whole, I'd say my advice would be to explore nudity and kink on your own, see what you're comfortable with and find partners who's goals match your own. And if you do go the route of becoming a "home nudist" around friends, be sure to keep things respectful as to not cause harm to others or you may find yourself looking for a new place to stay.

Good Luck

Jamie Plynth

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