Caged Husband = Happy Wife

By now, many women have seen or heard of enforced male chastity. The subject appears with increasing frequency in the mainstream media, and images of men locked in chastity devices have even appeared in a number of recent movies. Perhaps you have seen photos online of men locked in plastic or metal chastity cages. But, are you aware of the benefits that you could be enjoying by locking your husband in a male chastity device? If not, read on...

This writing is based on things that I've learned from a number of women that I've known over the years who cage their husbands. Two of these women also cuckold their husbands, and I've served as a 'bull' for them. Others are friends that I've met either in real-life or online, who have sought my advice as they embarked on their journey of enforcing male chastity with their husbands. I've stayed in contact with most of these women over the years, and they are always eager to share with me the latest developments in their journeys.

First and foremost, if your husband has hinted that he might want to 'experiment' with you locking him in a male chastity device, run (don't walk) to your favorite supplier of adult toys, and buy a male chastity device today. You won't regret it.

After locking your husband in a male chastity device, your husband will no longer be able to ejaculate without you unlocking the device. This means that YOU (not him) will now be in control of his orgasms. You will determine IF he cums, WHEN he cums, and HOW he cums.

Most women report that they begin to notice significant changes after an initial lock-up period of about three weeks. Around that time, you will start to notice behavioral changes in your husband, which you will immediately appreciate. He will be less agitated with you, less belligerent, more attentive to you, and more affable to you. Here's why:

1) He can no longer simply go somewhere and jerk-off. He's probably been doing that more than you realize. But, now that he no longer can simply get himself off, he NEEDS YOU for sexual satisfaction. As a result of this, you have now just become infinitely more important and more valuable to him. He now sees you in very different light than he did before. This will change the way he thinks of you and how he treats you. He will try hard not to disapoint you and he will be eager to please you. If, by chance, he digresses and treats you in a way that you find unacceptable, simply say, 'One more week...'. He will know exactly what that means, and you will see the look of regret in his eyes as he immediately wishes he hadn't done what ever he did to displease you.

2) Taking control of his cock and his orgasms puts a dent in his male ego. The male ego is the source of most problems in a marriage. Basically, it's what makes men assholes. And, the male ego is what makes many men think that they are naturally superior to women. But, nothing breaks down a man's ego more than the fact that he no longer has control of his own cock - the quintessential symbol of his very manhood. By breaking down his male ego, he'll be less aggresive and more pleasant to be around, and he will begin to see you (and other women) as equal (or even superior) to himself.

3) Just because he doesn't get to cum doesn't mean that you don't. His cock won't be available to you while it's locked in its cage, but his mouth will be eager to serve you. You can (an should) demand as much oral sex as you want while he is locked in chastity. Because he knows that he won't be cumming, he won't be distracted with the pursuit of his own pleasure while he pleases you, and therefore he will be able to focus all of his effort and energy on your pleasure. And, he will be eager to do so because of number 1 above.

There are numerous articles online that cover the pro's and con's of the different types of devices available, the logistics as far as fitting, cleaning, and other considerations. (FYI, I recommend a metal device. It will have a psychological effect on your husband of being more like a prison than a plastic one). A quick Google search will lead you to a wealth of information on these subjects, so I won't cover these here. However, the important thing to remember during the initial lock-up period is to constantly remind him that YOU now own his cock. Remind him several times a day of this. Tease him about it. Remind him that he won't be cumming until YOU allow it. Wear the key to his cage on a necklace around your neck, so that he constantly sees it. Dress and act provocatively and suggestively around him while he is locked in his cage. Play with his caged cock and balls, and remark when you see his cock trying to get hard inside its cage. After he's given you as many orgasms as you can handle with his tongue, ask him (sarcastically) if he would like to cum too. Then, when he says, 'yes', express your 'pity' that his release date is still weeks away. Feel his balls to see how full they are. Ask him what he would be willing to do for a blowjob (his answers might surprise you). You might think that all of this is very mean (and it is), but it is important that you do these things to reinforce the fact that you now control his cock and his orgasms. Doing so will amplify the effects of you caging him (particularly numbers 1 and 2 above).

After the initial lock-up period of about three weeks, you should grant him the privilege of an orgasm. Some women couch it as a sort of 'reward' for their husband. How you let him cum is up to you. It can be through sex, or you can give him a blowjob - or you can simply allow him to jerkoff while you supervise. Regardless of how you allow him to cum, you must immediately lock him back in his cage afterwards. There should be no mistake that his enforced chastity will continue.

Going forward, each woman that I've known has handled things differently. Some have kept their husbands on fairly short release schedule of only several weeks between releases, while others have used much longer durations. Some women have incorporated other ways of asserting their authority over their husband and further breaking down their husband's male ego - such as forcing their husband to eat his own cum after being granted the privilege of an orgasm, cuckolding their husband, taking their husband's anal virginity, forcing their husband to perform bi acts, etc. Many women who cage their husband see cuckolding as a natural next step after caging - i.e. even though they are getting as much oral sex as the want from their husband, they feel that they have a need to be filled, and being that their husband's cock is caged, cuckolding is the only other option. Other women have not gone beyond caging their husbands, and have no intention of doing so. Each woman's journey has taken its own unique course.

At some point, I plan to write a follow-up article, perhaps highlighting some of the more interesting journeys briefly described above. In the meantime, if this writing intrigued you, or you are interesting in discussing this subject, I welcome you to contact me through the contact form on this page.