I have never really been a submissive but I have had some interesting experiences as a sub. I remember some years ago a girlfriend wanted to tie me up, as I had her. She tied me much more securely than I had her... I was just "playing" but she seemed to mean it. My wrists and ankles were tied to the bed and though I was propped up on pillows, I could barely move.
I became very aroused as she told me she was going to teach me a lesson for having made her want my cock so much. She was going to show me that I needed her pussy more.
She took out a small vibrator -- I think it's called a rabbit -- and she taped it to my hard cock.
"Now you're going to get an idea of what it's like for me when you tease and make me wait," she said. And she turned the vibrator on, and left the room.
I got so hard, as hard as I have ever gotten. And all I could think about was wanting to cum... but I couldn't. It just wasn't quite enough. And I just started to ache, and all I could think about was fucking her, all the times we had fucked, how she would beg for cock when I licked her, how she would cum, how she would soak the bed, how I had made her into a woman who could cum repeatedly and seemed to want to all the time. She couldn't keep her hands off my cock, even in public. Just that afternoon I'd fucked her by the pool at her condo, with other people around, mostly ignoring us...
But I couldn't move. And I couldn't cum.
I called out... "Steph. Stephanie." Nothing.
I called out again, louder.
She came back in. She wasn't looking at me. She was playing with her nipples, under a tee-shirt.
"What do you want," she asked.
"I need to cum so bad," I said. "Is this what you meant? God, please let me cum. Please make me cum..."
She smiled. "Maybe this will help," she said. "Think about the first time you licked me... and I came, and asked you to fuck me, because I'd never cum more than once with oral before. Remember? I wanted you to stop, and you didn't... and then I came again, and again... and I couldn't stop... and then you fucked me." And you made me want it all the time."
"Maybe you know what it feels like now."
The vibrator was making me insane.
"I do," I said. "Please..."
She took off her cutoff shorts. She wasn't wearing panties. And she climbed into the bed, on top of me... but ignored my cock. She was higher up, and got into a position to lower her pussy to my mouth.
"I think you should shut up and lick me," she said. Maybe I'll let you cum later." My cock just ached. I could feel the vibrartor in my toes. But I couldn't cum.
So I licked, and licked, and nibbled and licked.
She sighed, and moaned... a lot... but after a while she said, "You aren't making me cum this way. It's not comfortable, and I want your fingers up inside me, too.