Randy and I had been playing a lot online but wanted to realize our relationship in real-time. And so it was we agreed to meet face-to-face.
Yet every time we would set up an appointment, Randy would cancel last minute. Randy finally admitted, I'm apologizing to you a lot these days.
Though we are both switches, I have always considered myself slightly more dominant and Randy more submissive. In our dare or dare games online, I won far more of the games than he ever did. But occasionally I would have to endure some payback, which I must confess, turned me on. In fact the role reversal from dom to sub has always been a huge turn on for me.
But back to Randy's many unexcused absences, by way of trying to make up for it and offering more than a weak-ass apology, Randy offered to be punished by me. As I said he had more of a sub streak than I ever did.
So we agreed Randy would be stripped naked and receive a good bare bottom spanking from me for all his indiscretions. After Randy's initial punishment, we discussed making some bet involving forfeits on a sporting event that would determine who would be submissive and who would be dominant. We were after all, both switches. As always we both like to leave it up to fate as to who would control the other. We both enjoy humiliation as a fetish and the thought of either winning and having the chance to give the other forfeits or, conversely, endure them, was a turn-on.
One scenario we came up with was picking a game and each choosing a team. Whoever's team scored would be dominant over the other and remain dominant until the other team scored. With each goal scored, or points earned a forfeit would have to be performed by the person whose team had lost the point. The forfeit would be determined by the person whose team had scored. This seemed an ideal way for two switches to leave their outcomes as dom/sub to chance.
But before this could be realized the 2015 Superbowl XLIX was upon us.
Though we could not watch it together we decided to each pick a team.
It was agreed the person with the losing team would become automatic sub to the winner for a set period of time AFTER Randy paid the price for his unexcused absences, when we finally did meet. Whoever was sub would be subject to the whims of the person with the winning team and few humiliations were off the table. We were each aware of the others, fetishes and weaknesses having played on line for so long with each other.
He chose the NE Patriots, me the Seattle Seahawks.
As you may recall ...
The Seahawks built a 10-point lead to end the third quarter. The Patriots, however, rallied to take a 28-24 lead with 2:02 left in the game. Seattle threatened to score in the final moments, driving the ball to New England's 1-yard line. With 26 seconds remaining in the game, Seattle decided to pass the ball in a highly scrutinized call that resulted in Patriots rookie Malcolm Butler making a game-saving interception of Russell Wilson's throw.
I could not believe it!
I thought the Seahawk's would win but NO!! ... NOW I was the loser who would be submissive to Randy. I was crushed and more than a little anxious. I had already being planning to extend Randy's servitude and humiliation but now it seems the tables would be turned on me.
Randy contacted me the day after the game and said he would still honor his commitment to being punished by me but I would now, eventually, lose that dominance over him after that time and become his sub. He wondered how I would like to propose this transition from my punishing him to becoming his sub? I was surprised he gave me any options.
But ... I knew Randy had a strong sub streak in him and I was already wondered if he really could switch from being sub to dominating me the same day. And I truly enjoyed dominating and humiliating Randy :)
So I proposed a game ...
We would take an ordinary deck of cards, well shuffled ...
After the time limit was up for me to dominate Randy and punish him for his many absences we agreed we would each pick a card off the top of the deck.
If Randy got the low card he would stay submissive, endure as many spanks to his already sore red ass as the value of the card. And he would endure a further forfeit for each loss. Randy would be required to carry out the forfeit and stay submissive for the same number of minutes as the value of the card before another card could be picked by each of us.
However, if Randy got the high card, Randy got the right to strip me of one article of my clothing. And in fairness I suggested if Randy got the high card, he could also undo one act of submission, aka forfeit, such as removing a butt plug, a gag, a tie etc. that I as his top had inflicted upon him. In this way, Randy would have to the chance to earn his way to topping me, we would not simply switch.
Further ...
I agreed once I lost an article of clothing to Randy, I could not win it back. Once lost the clothing was Randy's (until the end of the playtime obviously - then I wanted my clothes back).