It was heading toward some typical Friday night sex.
I had gotten off early for a week off-- the new year's holiday plus some extra vacation time I had scheduled. So I was relaxed, feeling good, enjoying myself, feeling sort of free.
He was already off from work. I fixed us sandwiches, a cheap and easy quick dinner at 5:00. I had removed my pants. Yeah, I know. That's a guy thing. Well, sometimes I like it too, I like to wander around the house without the feeling of clothes restricting me. It's also something that tends to move things in a specific direction and I was open to that.
He had come into the kitchen while I was making the sandwiches and grabbed my ass. I kissed him and kept going, so he slid his hand under my panties and grabbed it again, this time with a couple of fingers sliding a bit far down and trying to worm their way between my legs.
"Do you want something to eat or not?" I complained to him.
"Well, yeah. Um... depends... what if I don't?"
"Well, I want something to eat and am going to be grumpy if I don't get my blood sugar up." I have to watch my blood sugar or I get, um... grumpy is a nice word for it.
"Sure! Sure! Well... maybe later..." He leered at me and tweaked my ass again, then went off and watched some TV.
So the stage was set. He wanted sex. I was open to it. That's the way it goes on a Friday night at home. Pretty much assured we will be in bed wrestling with each other if we aren't going out.
It took about an hour to get there, but he managed to work his fingers under my panties again and found I was spreading my legs slightly, so all lights were green. We headed to the bedroom where he stripped off his clothes, I stripped off my top, and he climbed on top, hands beginning to roam.
His sex technique is rather limited, though most of that is because he is a guy and guys just... well, ultimately there are only a couple things they really want and everything else is sort of compromise. His technique focuses on kissing, feeling me up, getting his fingers on my pussy and making sure I am wet. I respond with holding him close, kissing him and eventually grabbing his cock (which seems to be always hard), and keeping him stimulated until I get warmed up enough he can enter me.
My favorite position for straight sex is on my back-- missionary style. I can't explain it. It just is. I like spreading my legs and maybe wrapping them around a guy. When I am with a girl, there are a zillion other things I like equally, but I do have a preference when it comes to guys-- on my back, knees bent, maybe legs around his thighs, my hands or arms holding him.
Recently he had discovered he liked anal. That's another story and position. Usually on my hands and knees, ass up in the air. I have to limit how often we do anal because he's big enough that I am always sore afterward, sometimes for several days. He likes anal sort of rough.
But Friday he was aiming toward my pussy. I hadn't spread my legs wide on my back yet, but his cock was between my thighs, and he was getting ready for entry soon.
In other words, a very typical, very standard Friday evening fuck. A sex session likely to last a half hour tops, with about five minutes of actual fucking and five minutes of cuddle, tops. (God, I miss women sometimes).
"Let's do something different tonight?" I sort of whispered in his ear as our bodies were pressing and undulating.
"Like what?" he asked.
I have a variety of kinks, most of which he and I don't do and some of which he doesn't even know about and probably never will. I like to experiment just to see what I will like, and over the years have discovered a bunch of things that are kind of fun and arousing (and a lot that I don't like). I've discovered I enjoy things like having sex in public places, or places where we can or will be discovered. Airplanes, trains, cars, stores, restrooms and the like. I like sex with girls, of course, a sensitive subject with him. So sensitive we never discuss it (he's very jealous about it). I enjoy teasing men, edging them (he and I have not done a lot of that, he tends to get frustrated, but we do it sometimes).
I've had some experience with bondage. Light bondage. Handcuffs with my former girlfriend, accompanied by spanking. That was fantastic, mostly because of who I was with. I also had a relationship with a girl that liked to try new things; she was the one that had the strapons and double dongs. She and I played with tying each other up a number of times. It was fun, though I think it was again mostly because of who I was with.
So I was laying there, a naked man in my arms, wet pussy and a throbbing cock between my legs, wondering what I could get him to do.
"Um... wanna tie me up?"
His cock withdrew from between my legs and he looked at me as if I had just said North Korea had launched a nuclear attack. He's kind of vanilla. He's also maybe the only man I have ever known that I would ever suggest that too, that I trust enough. He'd listen to me and not take things too far. Even so, it felt weird and a bit scary to suggest it.
"What? Like... how? You want that?"
"No, it's not like I want that in particular, I just thought... we could try something. Just see."
I thought his cock was going to go flaccid on me, he pulled back and I could see his mind trying to wrap around this concept. He knew I was more sexually experienced than he, and never liked having it rubbed in his face. Down deep he was thinking he was getting in over his head, that he was going to be embarrassed, that this wasn't something he knew how to do or whatever. Men's egos and all.
Now, this has to be the first time I have ever thought of you, Neal, while in the act of sex. It makes sense that I did of course. I was wavering and thinking maybe I should just lay back, spread my legs and fuck him, but then I thought of you and your partners going at it and I just sort of thought, dammit, I want to try this with him at least once. I like being kinky. Not very kinky, but I want more variety! (See, you are having an awful influence on me. I should stop talking to you.)
Anyway, he didn't reject it, he just sort of said, "well, do we have rope?" (It's my house and while he lives there a lot of what is in the garage is mine. Why I didn't think of the handcuffs I have stored away, I don't know).
"Yeah. A couple of kinds. Let me go see."
I went to the garage. There are a several junk drawers out there and voila... there was some rope. It was ancient, I had no idea where it came from, and was thin-- almost like twine, but heavier. More a sort of thick twine or thin rope. I know enough that I knew this was not a good choice for rope for bondage scenes, but it was all I had.