OUR FIRST INTRODUCTION TO THE DUNGEON AND DISCIPLINES OF THE DOMINATRIX
When a Dominatrix agrees to see you, the first thing you learn is that She is in control of your experience and fantasy. Everything this lady will do to you has to be carefully handled and 100% consensual. That's the whole point of paying an astronomical amount of money for someone to beat you to a pulp, because she will do it safely and skilfully. Yes you could dress in drag, stand on the terraces at an England Football match to provoke a vigorous thrashing for free, but there will be no control. With a Dominatrix it's all about control and how much skill she possesses to manipulate your senses, and manage your pain. If she's mastered her craft, she can offer erotic discipline as a pleasure tool to produce a massive high from endorphins. If controlled right, an experience with a Dominatrix will blow your mind, as well as your load!
FANTASY
I learned a long time ago there are several requirements to keeping a good relationship strong. One of those is the ability to accept that we do not own or control what our partner thinks or desires. One mistake a lot of us make is not cutting our partners some slack every now and then, like when they get all frustrated and silly. If you keep a guy on too tight a leash, eventually you'll get bit. But if you give them too much rope they hang themselves, so you need to keep a happy medium. Allowing a few surprise treats once in a while will enliven any relationship and so when my boyfriends' birthday came round, I decided to enlist the help of a professional caterer and booked him a Dominatrix.
Now, whether he actually wanted a Dominatrix or not is another matter entirely but then experimentation = knowledge = power and he's always keen to expand those. So I engaged a cunning ploy and seductively explained my fantasy about being tied naked, spanked and whipped by some raven-haired vamp, as he lurked seedily in the shadows watching. The blood-flow to his genitals by-passed his common sense, and BINGO! He agreed!
DUNGEON
Like partners in crime - well the Vice-Squad - we arrived at our 'House of Pain'. Once inside, we were greeted by a black haired, leather clad, spiteful looking Mistress Claudia. This lady looked exactly as I had imagined. Squeezed so tight into her corset, her big shiny ass had almost doubled in size, and her boobs nearly touched her chin. There would be only one clown at this Birthday party and it sure as shit wasn't going to be her.
I'd informed her that it was my guys birthday in advance, so I knew she had something special in mind (30 lit candles sticking out his ass perhaps?), but I had no idea what she had in store for me. I started to feel really nervous. After being ordered to strip naked we were led through a steel door to the basement that smelt damp and felt scary. Squinting into the darkness we saw wall racks, chains, ropes, more racks and even a set up that looked like a horse and vault. You could literally smell the fear and terror that had been soaked up like a sponge by these four walls. Her Dungeon looked like a cross between an Amnesty International Poster and the Marquis De Sade's home Gym.