My name is Tere and this story happened when I was going through my divorce the same time my first cousin was going through his divorce, and I had been married for eleven years and Kenneth had been married about as long. We had been out of the singles scene for a long time so both of us only had married friends to hang around, and didn't remember what it was like to even know how to make single friends since it had been so long since we even tried. This was my first divorce and my cousins third, so we started hanging out together and before long Kenneth had this friend of his who was after him, and wanting him to join a singles group so she could chase after him so he talked me into joining the Singles Group to keep this older woman away from him.
Judy talked him into taking dance lessons with the group and he talked me into joining the dance class so he would have a dance partner. His reasons for getting me to join was to keep Judy away from him. Although I already knew how to dance, my cousin didn't and wanted to learn but he knew if I didn't go with him, he would be stuck with Judy who he described as short and dumpy. The first night of class he introduced me to Judy who was not short and dumpy but was short and FAT. I told him, boy you need to have a lesson in what is short and dumpy and what is short and fat. We ended up taking the dance lessons together and ended up really getting to know each other pretty well. Kenneth is 10 years older than I am so I really hadn't gotten to know him very well.