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Mum asked me if I would fill in an anonymous questionnaire from the pill people. She said it is very personal, but they have no way of knowing who you are.
I said I would if it will help her. It was online and mum sent me the link. When everyone was out, and I had the house to myself I sat on the settee with the iPad and started the survey.
The first few questions were just about me, gender, was I the same gender now as I had at birth, age range, ethnicity, religious beliefs, first two letters of postcode, that sort of thing. Then it got interesting. It explained that in the following questions 'sex' referred to mutual masturbation or penetrative intercourse involving two or more partners of same or differing gender. Crumbs.
Sexual Orientation,
Straight,
Bi-Sexual,
Gay,
Trans,
Other.
I had no idea what 'Other' could be. I wasn't really Bi-Sexual, yes, I loved going with girls but I much preferred boys. What to answer was the question. Perhaps 'Other' would fit here?' I answered 'Other'.
Another box popped up, 'Please expand on Other'
I answered 'I prefer straight sex, but occasionally have same gender sex'.
Have you experienced feelings of high temperature, sometimes referred to as 'Hot Flushes' since the medication was first used in your household? The medication here was the experimental tablet mum was using.
I answered 'no'.
Did you masturbate before the medication was first used in your household?
I answered 'yes'
Frequency of Masturbation before the medication was first used in your household?
I answered 'occasional'. I wasn't really thinking sex before mum started her medication.
Were you a virgin when the medication was first used in your household?
I answered 'yes'.
If Not a Virgin how long before the medication was first used in your household did you start having sex?
I answered 'N/A'
If a Virgin how long after the medication was first used in your household did you start having sex?
Crumbs, I think it must have been about two weeks from what mum said.
I answered '2 Weeks' it was close enough. I wondered if Jase would get to answer one of the questionnaires, another thing to ask him when I next saw him.
What is the frequency of your masturbation now since the medication was first used in your household?
I answered 'none'. It is so infrequent these days I can't really remember the last time my fingers went walking down there. I had far too much sex to even think about masturbating. Hate that word, nearly as awful as wanking.
How often do you have now sex with another person or persons since the medication was first used in your household?
Well that was interesting, at least every day, but sometimes, usually, more than once a day.
I answered 'daily'
Do you use any forms of STI protection, ie. Condoms and Prophylactics?
I answered 'not usually'
Do you use any form of birth control, if yes, please identify type and frequency of use?
I answered with details of my three monthly injection, Sayana Press.
Please identify which types of sex you have engaged in since the medication was first used in your household.
Vaginal,
Anal,
Oral.
I answered 'All of the above'
Have you engaged in multi-person sex, i.e. with two or more people at the same time since the medication was first used in your household?
I answered 'yes'.
If yes, did this involve multiple penetration, e.g. Vaginal and Anal concurrently, or Vaginal and Oral concurrently?
I answered 'yes all of the above'
Have you engaged in sex in a public place, i.e. where other people could see you since the medication was first used in your household?
The woods are public, but we do try to ensure we can't be seen, but, technically the answer is yes.
I answered 'yes'
Have you had sex where someone not participating has watched?
My bloody neighbour with his drone. 'yes'
If so, was this with your knowledge and acceptance?
'NO'
Do you get aroused sexually when you hear or watch other people engage in sex?
'no'
Do you walk around your house nude or partially clothed, if so what is the motivation for this?
I answered 'Yes. No motivation but no need to cover up when everyone in the house has already seen every part of everyone's body'
Do you use sex toys, for example anal beads or vibrator?
Just the once, that doesn't count.
'no'
Do you use sex toys as part of sex with another person?
'no'
You identified in part 1 as female, do you wear a dress or skirt with no underwear in public, if so what is your motivation?
'no'
Has wearing no underwear in public ever resulted in sexual acts with a previously unknown partner?
'N/A'
Then there were a section of questions that I could skip if I did not wish to answer, it didn't bother me, I answered them.
Have you ever been forced into sexual acts against your wishes. For example, being forced to masturbate a man or woman, or use a finger to penetrate a woman's vagina with threats of violence or private images being published?
Well, yes, Uncle bloody John. I still dreamed of squeezing his balls so hard that he puked and died on his own vomit. And that bloody neighbour over the road with his drone. Anyway, moving on.
I answered 'yes'