45 year old male, been bi for over 20 years. Never knew my dad growing up, he and mom split and he moved states away before I went to kindergarten. I finally met with him about eight years ago when he moved to the state where I live. Ironically about an hour from me and my sister (she lives one town over from me). Comparing things about how we grew up, not knowing each other as he lived states away, we have pretty identical lives. We've owned the same make and models and colors of motorcycles. We've owned the same breeds of dogs, we both went into the military at the same age and also the same branch.
Only natural for a conversation at some point to turn to sexual our individual sexual escapades and find out we are pretty identical there also. His last wife passed about ten years ago and he never started dating anyone again. He started going to some of the bath houses and adult theaters that are within a few hours of us. There is one an hour from where I live, and also a little less than an hour from his house. We were chatting back and forth on messenger and I told him I had to run to that particular town to pick up some stuff for my work and I said I was gonna flip a coin on whether to go ahead and go to the theater or behave and come back to work.
I flipped a quarter and it landed on me going to the theater. I told him I was going to go pick up my supplies and then head over to the theater. I asked him what he was doing today as he's now retired, and he said he had nothing on the agenda. I said I'm sure you'll find something to do today. I went on about my workday and started heading to the town to pick up the supplies. I shot him a message and said I am finally headed to get the supplies and then on over to the theater. What did you end up doing? He replied back as I'm driving south. The only thing for him to drive south for would be to go by my sisters or the theater. She's at the halfway point between him and the theater. In the next hour, I will know whether he stop by my sisters or continued down south. This could be a new father-son bonding experience.
I took care of my business for work and drove over to the theater. I really thought dad would've beat me there if he was going but his truck wasn't there. I shoot my sister a message and said "I haven't heard from dad in a few days. Have you heard anything from him". She replied back no she hasn't seen or heard from him in a couple days either. I shot a message back said OK I'll call him tonight. Hmmmmm..... he definitely had plenty of time to be at her house by now.