Strange how things you did years ago end up having an impact on your life later on. I used to be into catfights and mixed wrestling big-time. I primarily used my computer to surf various women's wrestling sites that often included mixed matches. The one thing I wasn't crazy about was the fact that all the sites always had the women winning, often over huge-muscled opponents. Now, I am not saying that a woman can't beat a man, but on these sites they NEVER did! Not being a "subbie", I like back and forth action between two wrestlers with a realistic ending to the match.
I remember an online buddy sending me some catfight pictures of two women in jeans, barefeet and topless. I found it extremely hot at the time and the pictures were downloaded to my computer and pretty much forgotten about.
I eventually had to get a new computer because my old one conked out, so I had a technician save the important files and transfer them to my new computer. Little did I know those pictures were also transferred to my new computer.
Over the years I got married, had kids and led the basic family life...until my wife ended up looking for family pictures to attach to an email and ended up looking at two topless, barefooted, jeans-clad women putting each other in various wrestling holds. Needless to say the shit hit the fan!!
Imagine yourself trying to explain what they were, where they came from and if that kind of thing interested you. Well, there I was. Of course she was upset, and over the next few days we talked through it and I was able to show her how old the pictures actually were. That eased her mind, but not before she blabbed to my mom about what she found.
I had to stop by my mom's to help her pack some things up in the attic when she started in on me. It was embarrassing enough having to talk to my wife about it, but being grilled by my mother? Ugh! No, I was not going to talk about it with her, but she kept on and on and on, harping about how stupid I was and wondering how I could degrade women like that.
Finally I had enough and told her that no women were being degraded. I had the utmost amount of respect for women, at the time it was just a fetish thing I was into but wasn't anymore. Of course she had to ask me what I meant by fetish.