My son, Troy, and I hadnât been back to California since my divorce. We lived the last 10 years in St Louis and had only come back for what the family was billing as âThe Last Great Powers Family Reunion.â Troy had just turned 18 and was looking forward to seeing cousins, aunts, and uncles he hadnât seen for years. I have to admit I was looking forward to it too. I especially wanted to see my sister Sharon again. Growing up we were always very close, being only a year apart helped I think. It seemed like we went through everything together, puberty, first love, marriage, and even divorce. Sharon was newly divorced, just 8 months out of a terrible marriage.
The reunion, held at my brotherâs house was a huge success! Troy and I had a great time visiting and he even talked about maybe going to college in California just so he wouldnât lose touch again. Near the end of the evening Sharon came over and sat near me. âHe looks a like you did at that age Robâ she said , looking at Troy across the yard. âCourse, you donât look that bad now brother, youâve aged pretty well for an old guyâ. âOld!!â I protested, âexcuse me miss turning 40 this year. You look pretty good yourself for an old broad.â We shared a laugh and sat silent for a moment until Sharon whispered âremember those days Rob, how we could count on each other to give each other a hand.â? That phrase âgive each other a handâ triggered my memory.