(So one reader asked me why I didn't try to explain the brother/sister dichotomy where they are compelled to indulge while law and custom as well as church forbids. It is a confusing situation and each case is an individual one. I don't think any one answer suffices. Anyway I wrote the following to explain one case. I hope you enjoy. All participants are at least eighteen)
Hey, look at me, I was with the jock clique in high school and this one girl was with the nerds. She was a real Harry Potter freak. I paid her no mind and barely noticed her because she was my younger sister Cindy Emma. That's how she was at home as well and I didn't understand her at all. A dumb bitching know-it-all who I had learned to tune out.
Then came the divorce resulting in my going to aunt and uncle's place to live. It was close to home so I didn't have to change schools. It made little difference for me. Cindy went off with Mom and I lost touch with her. I never looked them up.
Then this summer I was up in the woods walking my dog when I ran into her skipping stones on a small pond. I couldn't ignore I knew her anymore than she could me so we stated talking and I suddenly took a long hard look at her. She had changed. Not just grown up but her outlook had changed and suddenly I found her hot.
"What has happened? Somehow you seem to have grown up and caught up with me." I was puzzled. "You're not at all like you used to be."
She smiled with a twisted smile, "I got fucked since then. I went from nerd to nympho."
I was at a loss for words. She went on explaining, "You weren't there to protect me any longer. Did you know I used to worship you and kept all boys away by telling them you would fix them if they touched me." She laughs wryly. "Would you have protected my honor?"
"I like to think I would have." It wasn't a very positive statement but I covered by paying attention to my dog.
"At least you might have acknowledged I was there. I had a real crush on you, dear brother. I wanted you to take me to bed then." She looks me up and down speculatively with a small smile.