When my daughter Cat turned five, her mother divorced me and the two of them moved to France, ostensibly to further my wife's career as a highly successful lingerie model.
In protest I barely spoke a word to either of them, until recently when i learned Cat's mother had plans to move to Denmark with her new boyfriend.
To my delight, when Cat turned 18 she became the third wheel in her mother's affair and given her age and maturity made up her own mind to move home to the US and spend the summer with me.
I'd retired last year at 50. My father recently passed away and left me with a beach house that hadn't been occupied in years and needed my attention.
When Cat literally dropped herself at my doorstep, I was surprised by her appearance. Her ragamuffin look was nothing like I would have expected from someone living a life of the daughter of an international lingerie model.
"Hi Daddy," was about all Cat had to say as she brushed by me, threw her bags in the corner and flopped onto the corner leather sofa. She instinctively located the best corner of the beach house, with the sun setting over the ocean through the floor to ceiling windows.
That's my spot, I thought with a twinge of jealousy. Only a cat of the most feline persuasion would have the audacity to pull such a move without a second thought.
"Would you care for some thing to eat?" I said.