A Lifetime of Sex-Positive Nudism

My name is James, and I have been married for 45 years to Cindy. We are now both in our mid 60s, live mainly in the US Midwest, and are both very active and in great shape for our age. We are both nudists and we are both bisexuals. We have had almost 50 years of experiences as sex-positive nudists, which I define as nudists who believe sexual experiences can be a part of a nudist lifestyle. We realize and respect the fact that some nudists/naturists keep these two parts of their lives separate; that is, they believe that the nudist experience should be non-sexual. In fact, there have certainly been times in our lives when we have enjoyed the nudist lifestyle without sex. However, sex has often been part of nudism lifestyle for us. In this series of essay, I write about the experiences we have had over the last almost 50 years as sex-positive nudists. Hope you enjoy!

Chapter 4: Our Nudist/Sex Group

The Group Structure

We joined our first nudist group when we were in our late 20s. That group was a family nudist group made up mainly of nudists who also spent time at a nearby family nudist resort. A subset of those member have also been part of an adults-only nudist group that meets once or twice a month, usually more often in the summer than the winter. Over the years this group has typically had 25-30 members. We have been part of it for almost 40 years. While we used to be one the youngest couples in the group, we now find ourselves among the older members. We typically meet on weekends but also hold parties on holidays like New Years Eve and the Fourth of July.

The rules for the group has always been the same. The first few hours involve only nudity. No sex is allowed during this time. At a designated time, those members not interested in having sex or watching others have sex leave while the rest of the members stay to play. Playtime typically involves open group sex or more private one-on-one encounters in bedrooms or secluded locations. Individual members determine what specific sexual experiences they participate in and no one under 18 can be part of the group. It is expected that anyone who stays is STD free; our members test often. Occasionally visitors join us if a group member brings them, but more permanent membership requires a majority vote of the group. Over the years Cindy and I have had some great experiences with this group. We consider it a very safe space since we have known most of the members for several years.

Our son, Jason, and our daughter, Claire, both joined the group after they turned 18. Jason continued in the group after he got married; his wife, Susie, embraced nudism before they were married and enjoys the nudist and free-sex lifestyle. They live nearby so both are active in the group. Claire attended regularly until in her mid 30s when she got married and moved away. I could probably write a whole book on our times in the group but will restrict this writing to a few of our most memorable experiences.

Our parties rotate between the homes of members who are willing to host. We usually host a party at our home a couple of times a year. Summer parties are great, especially at the homes of members who have secluded pools. The age range of members is currently from 20 to 80. Most are couples but there are typically 4-5 singles there as well. And the group is about evenly divided between men and women. Some in the group are straight and some are bi like Cindy and me. People get naked as soon as they arrive, and the first few hours are spent in conversation and catching up with friends. About two-thirds of the group are sex-positive nudists and most of these stay for playtime after the social nude time. The remaining third typically leave but occasionally some members stay to watch but don't participate in the playtime.

Our First Experience in the Group

Our first experience in the group was very memorable. We were in our late 20s. We were invited to join the group through friends we knew at the family nudist resort we often went to. It was summer and steamy hot the first evening we attended. The party was hosted by Mark and Jenny, who had a pool in their very private backyard. After Mark announced it was playtime, a few people left. Some of the remaining people paired off and went in the house. Cindy and I stayed in the pool chatting with several others we had met during the first couple of hours of nude time.

I was sitting at the edge of the pool with my legs in the water. Before long Jenny, who was in the pool, waded over and said, "I hope you are enjoying yourself at your first party."

I responded, "What could be better than being naked."

She said, "I will show you something better." Jenny stepped in between my legs and started to lick by cock and balls. I got hard very fast and grew to my full 8 inches. I reached down into the water and started to massage her breasts and nipples. Jenny was (and still is) gorgeous: She was about 40 years old back then with huge breasts and a luscious thin body. Her pussy was shaved, and it was easy to see the beginning of the prominent crack between her legs leading to the opening of her vagina.

After a while I said, "Let's we switch positions."

I slipped down in the water and helped her up to sit up on the edge of the pool. I buried my head between her legs and began sucking and licking her clit. She eventually laid back on the pool deck with her legs still in the water. I switched to finger fucking her until she started to moan very loudly.

Jenny then said, "How about getting out of the water and using that cock to fuck me."

I got out of the water, and we moved to a lounge chair. She laid back on the chair, put her legs up around my shoulders and neck, and I penetrated her. I fucked her hard and deep taking my cock out from time to time to rub my cock head around her clit and labia. I put my cock back in her hot hole and thrusted harder and quicker until I shot a huge load of cum deep into her vagina.

After we kissed and fondled each other for a while, Jenny said, "I need to check on some things in the kitchen. Why don't you help me."

"I am always willing to help," I said with a grin.

She took my hand, and we went from the pool to the kitchen. On the way her hand slipped down to my cock and balls, and she began fondling me. I got hard again. Jenny grabbed my hard cock and pulled me toward the kitchen. Since she still had a grasp on my cock, I had no choice but to follow her. "Looks like someone is ready to go again already," she said laughing.

Once we got to the kitchen Jenny embraced me, and we kissed. She still had my hard cock in her hand, stroking it occasionally. Her husband Mark came in the kitchen and said, "Hi guys. Looks like you are having some fun."

Jenny replied, "For sure. Since James is new, I wanted to make sure he felt welcome. I hope I succeeded!

I looked at Mark and said with a grin, "I have been welcomed and then some. Your wife certainly knows how to make a guy feel at home."

Jenny then said, "I brought James in here to help me get some more drinks out. Now that we are here, though, I decided that there is something else the two of you can do for me." With that said, she leaned over the kitchen island, spread her legs, and presented her back side for the taking.

Mark said, "Since you are obviously already rock hard, you go first." I stepped up behind Jenny and inserted my hard cock up into her wet vagina from behind and began pumping slowly.

"Harder, I want you guys to fuck me hard." Jenny ordered.

I put my hands on her luscious ass cheeks, and I rammed my cock in her pussy as hard as I could. I banged her hard and fast. Mark was watching with interest and stroking his cock. His cock was of average length but extremely thick and very hard. I pulled my cock out of her pussy and said, "Your turn."

Mark then mounted his wife from behind and thrusted his thick dick in and out of her pussy while I stroked myself and watched. A few minutes later he gasped, "Here goes," and started to spasm in an obvious orgasm.

He pulled out and I immediately penetrated Jenny and again started thrusting hard and fast. She arched her back and shuddered as she orgasmed. The combination of Jenny wet pussy and Mark's cum felt great. It didn't take me long to ejaculate deep up in Jenny's pussy and then pump her several more times. When I took my cock out of her pussy it was totally covered with Jenny's pussy juice and two huge loads of cum.

Jenny then stood up, turned towards me and whispered, "Let me take care of that." She got down on her knees in front of me and licked my semi-hard cock until it was clean. She said, "I think you are going to be a lot of fun at our parties." I simply smiled.

Earlier when Jenny and I were talking in the pool I noticed that Cindy was sitting on a bench near the pool talking to an older guy who was sitting next to her. When Jenny I were walking into the house to go to the kitchen I saw that Cindy and older man were gone.

A couple of hours later, Cindy emerged from a bedroom. We decided to call it a night and head for home. On the way home I asked her, "Did you have fun tonight?"

She said, "Fun is an understatement! Let me tell you about my fun with Bud. Turns out he is Jenny's father, 70 years old, a long-time nudist, and from out of town. When we were chatting, he asked me if I thought he was too old to have sex with. I told him I thought nobody was too old for sex and that I was game if he was. With that we decided to find a bedroom and have some fun."

I couldn't wait to hear more.

She continued, "We started out laying face to face on the bed kissing. He was a great kisser. We laid side my side for quite a while letting our tongues explore each other's lips and mouth. Then he slowly kissed my neck and worked his ways to my breasts and nipples. He gently bit and teased my nipples while gently rubbing my pussy. You know that always makes me hot. Then his tongue traced its way down my abdomen to my pussy. He licked and gently bit my clit until I was very wet. He was an expert at using his tongue to flick my clit and the opening to my vagina. He made me squirt. I was gushing. He found my special spot quickly and continued to work on it until I was squirming and shaking all over. I couldn't stop shaking. Definitely the best multiple orgasms I have ever had."

I asked, "Did he fuck you?"

Cindy replied, "Yes, but not how I expected. Bud asked me if he could fuck my ass instead of my pussy. As you know from first-hand experience, I love anal sex, so I said yes. His cock was really hard but not huge and there was lube on the nightstand. I told him to lube us up and that my ass was his for the taking. He liberally greased his hard dick and my ass hole. I got on all fours on the bed and relaxed. He got on his knees behind me and very gently inserted the head of his cock in my ass. He then gently worked it deeper and deeper. Once his cock was fully in, he began thrusting in and out while fingering my clit. I began squirting again and had an orgasm from the combination of clit stimulation and the ass fucking I was getting."

"Wow," I said. I found my cock started to stiffen a bit thinking about Cindy getting ass fucked. I have fucked her ass many times and I know she can have intense orgasms with a cock in her ass.

Cindy then said, "Let me finish the story. Eventually he pulled his cock out my ass and asked me if he could fuck my pussy. My response was to lay on my back and spread my legs wide exposing my wet pussy to him. He then penetrated my pussy and fucked me for quite a while. He eventually pulled out and shot a huge load of semen on my stomach and tits. We laid face-to-face for a while kissing and chatting until he got hard again. He got me on all fours again but instead of penetrating my ass he put his cock in my pussy and fucked me from behind while hanging on to my tits. When we were done, we kissed. He thanked me for making his evening enjoyable and we parted ways. He was a real gentleman in every way!"

"Sounds like you had a great time," I said.

Nodding, she grinned and replied, "Oh yes. If Bud is an example of the kind of guys that attend these parties, I want to come back for more." Thinking of my time with Bud's daughter, Jenny, I agreed.

Our Son and Daughter Join the Group

One evening Cindy and I were sitting nude at home with our son Jason. It was a couple of months after his 18th birthday. As was usually the case, he was nude as well. "What are your plans for the weekend," Jason asked.

I responded, "On Saturday evening, we plan to go for some nude time at our friends' house. What are you plans?"

"Well, I have been thinking," Jason replied. "I think I want to go to the party on Saturday as well and check out the nudist group you two belong to. Marcia, a friend of mine, told me about the parties. She started attending a year ago after she turned 18. She told me it is a sex party as well as a nudist gathering and has a good time there."

"I know Marcia. I have seen her at a few of the parties," I said. "And we know her parents Keith and Becky well." I didn't tell Jason that I had sex with Marcia's mother a few times.

Jason then said, "I know what nudist gatherings are like. I guess I am curious about how the sex parties go."

Jason attended the party on Saturday. Since he had gone with us to family nudist resorts, he had no problem removing his clothes and joining the others. He seemed to be enjoying himself but when it was time to open the party for sex, he dressed and left the gathering.

When I got home Jason was sitting in the family room nude as usual. I took off my clothes, sat down with him and said, "I guess you decided not stay for sex."

He responded, "I thought about it but felt a little intimidated there since I was new to the group. I have had sex with girls when we are alone together, but I haven't had sex in a group setting before."

It's a very gentle, understanding group," I said. "Low key and laid back. With that said, however, I think you are smart to go at your own speed." I couldn't help but notice that Jason's cock was growing as we were chatting.

At the next meeting, Jason stayed when the host announced the gathering was open for sex. It was a rainy day, so everyone was indoors. I think he made the decision to stay partly because his friend Marcia was there as well. The usual members paired off and went to private rooms. Cindy and I stayed in the living room and hooked up with partners and began chatting, kissing and cuddling with them on blankets on the floor. To our surprise Marcia and Jason stayed in the room as well.

I watched with interest as Jason and Marcia began kissing and fondling each other on the couch. Both were very athletic at that age and in great shape. Marcia was 5'2", thin with small perky tits and petit nipples that pointed slightly up. She had a thin, well-manicured track of pubic hair that pointed the way down to her pussy. At 18, Jason was 6 foot tall, 190 pounds, and very muscular. He was, and still is, a regular at the gym. At 18, he was quite hairy except for his pubic hair, which was neatly trimmed. His scrotum and cock were shaved. Before long, Jason's cock got enormous, and I mean, enormous; more than 9 inches and as thick as a beer can. He was gently massaging Marcia's pussy while she slowly stroked his erect member. I couldn't take my eyes off them. I found watching my son having sex to be extremely stimulating. The woman I was playing with at the time was between my legs licking and sucking my cock. It was all I could do not to come quickly.

Eventually, Marcia got on her knees in front of the couch. Jason got on his knees behind her and very slowly penetrated her pussy from behind. She gasped loudly when he inserted his huge cock in her vagina but then moaned contently as he thrust in and out of her tight pussy. I had a clear view of his ass pumping and his balls slapping against her pussy. Meanwhile, the woman I was playing with got down on all fours facing Jason and Marcia so I could fuck her from behind. This had the added advantage of letting me watch Jason and Marcia while I pounded her pussy. Needless to say, I had no trouble shooting a big load in her with the additional visual stimulation Jason and Marcia provided.

I noticed that Cindy was watching Jason and Marcia as well while she was getting fucked by a guy on the other side of the room. I recognized the guy--it was Keith, Marcia's father. He was also watching Jason and Marica. After a while, Jason pulled his cock out of Marcia's pussy and ejaculated a huge load of semen all over her back and ass. They retired to the shower to clean up and most likely to fuck again.

At home after we were in bed. Cindy and I talked about what we saw. Cindy said, "Marcia's dad told me that he was glad his daughter found another young guy at the party to play with. He even commented on the size of your son's cock. He was impressed. I couldn't help but notice that he sure knows how to make a girl groan. I have to say that I was a bit jealous. I found myself wishing it was me he was fucking instead of her!"

I replied, "Hmmm, that's interesting. Mom wants her sons cock. I knew he was huge since I have seen him hard before. Now I also know that he can use that huge cock to make a lady very happy. Marcia seemed to enjoy the fuck. Kind of makes you proud."

Cindy said, "I think he is going to be very popular with a lot of ladies at these parties." She winked slyly at me. My response was to get between her legs and begin eating her beautiful pussy.

Jason is still a member of the nudist/sex group. In fact, he dated then eventually married Susie, who he met at one of the parties. Susie joined the group when she was 20, about five years before they married and a couple of years after Jason joined. Susie is dark-haired and gorgeous: 5'6", 130 pounds, perfectly round, firm large breasts with very dark areolas and nipples. She keeps her pussy shaved. Typically, Jason and Susie had sex with a variety of other partners at the parties in groups and in private. However, it was clear after a year or so that they had become a couple. They always came as a couple to the parties and played together. Although they didn't stop having sex with other partners it was clear they preferred each other.

About a year after Jason and Susie became a couple, Cindy and I were among a group of 8-10 people enjoying some rather hot group sex in den of one of our host's homes. It was rather low key and freewheeling with people chatting, making out, exchanging oral, masturbating, and all the other things you can do in a large group. People were exchanging partners fairly often.

At some point I was sitting on the floor enjoying a drink and taking a breather. I felt a hand come from behind me and start playing with my very soft dick, gently caressing it while massaging my balls. I started to get hard. I glanced behind me and discovered it was Susie. She smiled and said, "I hope you don't mind."

I said, "Not at all."

After a while she laid down on her side in front of me. I laid down face to face with her and we began to kiss. Since she started to fondle my hard my cock and balls again so I began gently rubbing her labia and clit with my middle finger, sometimes finding the entry to her vagina. Susie then said, "Can I suck your cock?"

I said, "I would love that."

I got on back and she came around between my legs, leaned down and licked the tip of my cock with her tongue, drawing a string of precum into her mouth. She licked my shaft and balls for a few minutes then asked me, "Will you eat my pussy?"

I replied, "I was hoping you would ask that!"

We switched places and I put my head up between her legs and began licking, sucking, and gently biting her labia and clit and sticking my tongue as far as I could up her vagina. After a while I asked, "Susie, can I fuck you?"