My name is James, and I have been married for 45 years to Cindy. We are now both in our mid 60s, live mainly in the US Midwest, and are both very active and in great shape for our age. We are both nudists and we are both bisexuals. We have had almost 50 years of experiences as sex-positive nudists, which I define as nudists who believe sexual experiences can be a part of a nudist lifestyle. We realize and respect the fact that some nudists/naturists keep these two parts of their lives separate; that is, they believe that the nudist experience should be non-sexual. In fact, there have certainly been times in our lives when we have enjoyed the nudist lifestyle without sex. However, sex has often been part of nudism lifestyle for us. In this series of essay, I write about the experiences we have had over the last almost 50 years as sex-positive nudists. Hope you enjoy!
Chapter 4: Our Nudist/Sex Group
The Group Structure
We joined our first nudist group when we were in our late 20s. That group was a family nudist group made up mainly of nudists who also spent time at a nearby family nudist resort. A subset of those member have also been part of an adults-only nudist group that meets once or twice a month, usually more often in the summer than the winter. Over the years this group has typically had 25-30 members. We have been part of it for almost 40 years. While we used to be one the youngest couples in the group, we now find ourselves among the older members. We typically meet on weekends but also hold parties on holidays like New Years Eve and the Fourth of July.
The rules for the group has always been the same. The first few hours involve only nudity. No sex is allowed during this time. At a designated time, those members not interested in having sex or watching others have sex leave while the rest of the members stay to play. Playtime typically involves open group sex or more private one-on-one encounters in bedrooms or secluded locations. Individual members determine what specific sexual experiences they participate in and no one under 18 can be part of the group. It is expected that anyone who stays is STD free; our members test often. Occasionally visitors join us if a group member brings them, but more permanent membership requires a majority vote of the group. Over the years Cindy and I have had some great experiences with this group. We consider it a very safe space since we have known most of the members for several years.
Our son, Jason, and our daughter, Claire, both joined the group after they turned 18. Jason continued in the group after he got married; his wife, Susie, embraced nudism before they were married and enjoys the nudist and free-sex lifestyle. They live nearby so both are active in the group. Claire attended regularly until in her mid 30s when she got married and moved away. I could probably write a whole book on our times in the group but will restrict this writing to a few of our most memorable experiences.
Our parties rotate between the homes of members who are willing to host. We usually host a party at our home a couple of times a year. Summer parties are great, especially at the homes of members who have secluded pools. The age range of members is currently from 20 to 80. Most are couples but there are typically 4-5 singles there as well. And the group is about evenly divided between men and women. Some in the group are straight and some are bi like Cindy and me. People get naked as soon as they arrive, and the first few hours are spent in conversation and catching up with friends. About two-thirds of the group are sex-positive nudists and most of these stay for playtime after the social nude time. The remaining third typically leave but occasionally some members stay to watch but don't participate in the playtime.
Our First Experience in the Group
Our first experience in the group was very memorable. We were in our late 20s. We were invited to join the group through friends we knew at the family nudist resort we often went to. It was summer and steamy hot the first evening we attended. The party was hosted by Mark and Jenny, who had a pool in their very private backyard. After Mark announced it was playtime, a few people left. Some of the remaining people paired off and went in the house. Cindy and I stayed in the pool chatting with several others we had met during the first couple of hours of nude time.
I was sitting at the edge of the pool with my legs in the water. Before long Jenny, who was in the pool, waded over and said, "I hope you are enjoying yourself at your first party."
I responded, "What could be better than being naked."
She said, "I will show you something better." Jenny stepped in between my legs and started to lick by cock and balls. I got hard very fast and grew to my full 8 inches. I reached down into the water and started to massage her breasts and nipples. Jenny was (and still is) gorgeous: She was about 40 years old back then with huge breasts and a luscious thin body. Her pussy was shaved, and it was easy to see the beginning of the prominent crack between her legs leading to the opening of her vagina.
After a while I said, "Let's we switch positions."
I slipped down in the water and helped her up to sit up on the edge of the pool. I buried my head between her legs and began sucking and licking her clit. She eventually laid back on the pool deck with her legs still in the water. I switched to finger fucking her until she started to moan very loudly.
Jenny then said, "How about getting out of the water and using that cock to fuck me."
I got out of the water, and we moved to a lounge chair. She laid back on the chair, put her legs up around my shoulders and neck, and I penetrated her. I fucked her hard and deep taking my cock out from time to time to rub my cock head around her clit and labia. I put my cock back in her hot hole and thrusted harder and quicker until I shot a huge load of cum deep into her vagina.
After we kissed and fondled each other for a while, Jenny said, "I need to check on some things in the kitchen. Why don't you help me."
"I am always willing to help," I said with a grin.
She took my hand, and we went from the pool to the kitchen. On the way her hand slipped down to my cock and balls, and she began fondling me. I got hard again. Jenny grabbed my hard cock and pulled me toward the kitchen. Since she still had a grasp on my cock, I had no choice but to follow her. "Looks like someone is ready to go again already," she said laughing.
Once we got to the kitchen Jenny embraced me, and we kissed. She still had my hard cock in her hand, stroking it occasionally. Her husband Mark came in the kitchen and said, "Hi guys. Looks like you are having some fun."
Jenny replied, "For sure. Since James is new, I wanted to make sure he felt welcome. I hope I succeeded!
I looked at Mark and said with a grin, "I have been welcomed and then some. Your wife certainly knows how to make a guy feel at home."