Thus, unlike human souls, Were souls cycle endlessly between Earth and the Endless Forest. The number of Weres alive on Earth isn't constant, of course, but the sum of the number of Were souls on Earth and in the Endless Forest remains constant. A particular Were may be born or turned as a different Were subspecies with each new incarnation—or even change subspecies during a single incarnation—but the Were's sex and the appearance of his or her human form remain identical across multiple lifetimes.
Mating is perhaps the most misunderstood aspect of the Were condition. All available evidence indicates that each Were soul is permanently paired with one other Were soul, male and female. This mating link persists across all lifetimes, and a Were soul will always know when it encounters its mate. Somehow, circumstance always seems to bring the mates together, though it may take quite some time. Though rare, there are documented cases where mates' animal-selves will hold back knowledge of their mates' identities from their human-selves until they deem circumstances suitable. Lastly, it is believed that no more than one of a mated pair will ever be born human at a time. In other words, one or both mates will always be 'awakened.'
When the mating 'pull' makes itself known, the two Weres are powerfully compelled by their animal-selves to physical union. At the height of this first sex act, one Were (usually the male) bites the other near the base of the neck. This produces a distinctive scar, declaring the mating to the world, and the act of biting itself serves as a catalyst for creating the set of telepathic links known as the mating bond. The creation of this bond is actually powered by the empathic (emotional) energy of the mating couple. Emotions run highest at the climax of a couple's first sexual union, and the pain of the bite amplifies the empathic energy generated by the couple's orgasms even further. The second bite is not necessary to establish the bond, but is invariably performed for the purpose of marking.
Recent evidence suggests that a Were
can
be 'pulled' to and mate with another Were of the opposite sex who is not his or her 'true' mate. Mating bonds form as normal, and are just as permanent as a normal mating. This has been demonstrated by rare cases after a Were has found a second mate upon the first one's death, the proof being that the second mate could not possibly be the reincarnation of the first mate. (Relative birth- and death-dates and the mates' physical appearance are the major aspects of this determination.)
It has also been historically demonstrated that mating can occur without a 'pull,' though such matings are invariably the result of force. Evidently, love is not the only emotion that can power the establishment of a mating bond; any emotion will do, so long as it is powerful enough. However, the use of any other emotion besides love is
not
advisable, as it appears to have an extremely negative impact on the mental health of
both
partners.
If one of the members of a mating couple was born human, the lycanthropic contagion will be transmitted through the mating bite, and will permeate his or her body. The contagion will awaken the Were's animal-self and transform his or her physical body over the next 10 to 16 days. The mental bonds form immediately in a 'turned' Were, but only the mating bond is immediately active. The pack bond and family bond (if any) usually become active within 12 hours. The newly turned Were must usually wait until the next full lunar cycle before shifting for the first time, but extreme emotions can facilitate a premature first shift. [Any meaningful discussion of the relationship between the Were contagion and the Terra-Luna Ley Fields would need to be conducted in Latin.]
A female Were can only conceive children from her 'true' mate; all 'untrue' matings on record have been barren, pull or no. Once mated, females enter estrus at the next full moon, and approximately every six months afterwards. Females typically remain fertile for over 300 years once mated. The gestation period is 9 months, just as in humans. Females can shift while pregnant, but avoid doing so during their third trimester.
Were children are referred to as "cubs" across all subspecies. Twins, and triplets occur at a higher statistical rate than in the human population, but more than three cubs at a time is extremely rare. Cubs are born in their human form, and are physically indistinguishable from human infants. (Further evidence that Weres are parahumans, not animals.) Cubs are typically unable to shift until the age of 4 or 5, and their parents must usually coach them through their first few shifts.
Barring trauma or accident, Weres have extremely long lifespans, averaging 500 years or more. The oldest verified Were is over 1,300 years old and still very much alive.
The untimely death of a Were's mate is an indescribably traumatic experience. Some 35 percent of survivors die within 30 days. Common symptoms among surviving mates include extreme depression, catatonia, self-destructive behavior, and suicide attempts. Love, care, and close monitoring by family, pack, and friends is critical to assisting the surviving mate through his or her grief and enabling the healing process. Having children or other dependents has a significant positive impact on recovery. The emotional healing process rarely begins before the 24-month mark. Interestingly, there are several recorded instances of a deceased mate being reincarnated within the surviving mate's lifetime. In such cases, the couple will, of course, mate (or mate again, depending on one's point of view).
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