Confugal Rights/obligations

Conjugal Rights/Obligations

I am a twenty-five year-old man and have been married for six months. I married her when she was nineteen years old. While we were dating, Chastity was very affectionate although we did not have sex before marriage because she was saving herself. I respected that position because I wanted my wife to be of good morals.

However, now that we are married, Chastity only rarely consents to having sex with me and only in the dark when we go to bed on a weekend. I have tried many times to increase the frequency and variety of our sex life, but she has not agreed to any changes.

My parents are deceased, so I have a fairly close relationship with my mother-in-law. She has been a widow for a couple years. Because I could not think of anything else to do, I resolved to delicately ask my mother-in-law for advice.

"Mother Davis, I was wondering if you could give me some advice regarding our marriage?"

I tried to come up with appropriate phrasing and said, "Chastity seems to be living up to her name and is reluctant to be affectionate to me."

My mother-in-law struggled to suppress a smile and responded, "So she is not meeting your sexual needs?" I nodded yes.

Her next comment floored me. "Force her. If she doesn't go along with it, paddle her into obedience." I gave Mother Davis a questioning look. She continued on, "Some women have trouble moving from protecting their virtue to a full physical partner in their marriage. And some of those women experience greater arousal when they understand they have no choice but to participate. It allows them to fully let go. Not to mention, a light spanking on the bare ass often awakens sexual desire. I speak from experience."

I am not sure what advice I had expected, but what she gave me was definitely not it.

I went home and did some internet research which validated much of what my mother-in-law had said. In particular, it noted that women who were raised in a conservative household were more likely to fit the profile she has provided. As I thought more about her answer, I reached another conclusion.

The next day I took a detour by my mother-in-law's house after I finished work. She said, "Need more advice?" when she opened the door. I pushed by her grabbing her by the arm and pulling her into the living room. As she started to ask me what I was doing, I pulled her over my lap and bared her bottom. I then used the paddle that I had brought with me to redden her butt. After about 20 strokes, I stood her up and told her, "Suck me off."

She barely paused and reached down to unzip my trousers and pull my hardening cock out. I didn't last long once she started licking and sucking me given that I was highly aroused and had not had sex in over two weeks. I stayed in her mouth until she had swallowed my load.

She looked up at me and said, "How did you know?" I replied, "That was easy, you pretty much told me yourself."

Now I had to plan how to implement her advice with Chastity. One step was to go by a local lingerie shop to purchase more appropriate options for my wife. In particular, I was excited to find a couple garter belts and stocking sets that came with lacy and skimpy bras and panties.

I wasn't sure whether to start by forcing her to have sex with me or with domestic discipline. Ultimately, I decided it was worth asking before forcing the issue.

After dinner, I told Chastity I wanted to talk to her. We went into the living room and she sat down next to me. I said, "I do not find our sex life to be satisfying because you are not fulfilling your conjugal obligations to me. It is a bit old fashioned, but clearly I am within my rights to insist that you provide me with sex when and where I want it."

She looked at me with a look of surprise and sputtered, "Surely you do not expect me to just take off my clothes whenever you want and violate me?"

"Well, it wouldn't be violating you because I would be exercising my conjugal rights, but in essence the answer to your question is yes. And I am ready for you now."

Chastity began to get up to walk out of the room. I grabbed ahold of her and swung her over my lap. Fortunately, she was wearing a loose fitting dress, so I quickly was able to flip her dress up over her back and yank down her panties and throw them on the floor. She started screaming as I proceeded to spank her bare bottom. I did not hit her very hard, but I did continue for over 15 minutes. At that point, I don't know about her ass, but my hand was getting a bit sore.

"Chastity, are you ready to have sex with me now?". She yelled, "No." so I proceeded to spank her for about five more minutes. She finally gave in, "Go ahead if that is what it takes for you to stop spanking me."

I pulled her up off my lap and gave her a kiss. Once I had taken off her dress and bra, I laid her back down on the couch. She started to protest that we were right in front of the picture window, but when she saw my look she stopped. I spread her legs and started to finger her pussy. To my great surprise, she was wetter than she had ever been. Clearly, Mother Davis had been on to something there. With her exhibiting full readiness, I quickly mounted her and began to slowly push in and out of her pussy. However, I was so excited by the process of getting my way, I came in only a minute or two. I was embarrassed by my performance and decided to make up for it by bringing her to orgasm with my fingers. She grabbed my shoulder as she shuddered with pleasure. After we had both caught our breath, she snuggled up with me until we went to bed.

At breakfast the next day, she told me as she headed out the door to work, "That may have worked for you last night, but don't expect me to always be so agreeable."

Obviously, her behavior was not going to change on a dime.

After dinner that night, I once again told her I would like to talk with her. She looked at me and said, "You aren't going to spank me and rape me again are you?" I responded that it had not been rape and that I was planning to work with a system of rewards and punishment. I handed her a gift card to her favorite clothing store and said, "Here is a reward. You already know what a punishment feels like."

Over the next few weeks, Chastity was somewhat more willing to sleep with me, but only in the dark and in our bed. I needed something to up my game. I knew she was going to be livid with my next level of reward and punishment.

The next morning she came out and said, "I cannot find any of my underwear. What did you do with them?"

"You know that system of reward and punishment we have been using? I don't think that is working to my satisfaction. Here is the new system. I have here several sets of garter belts and stockings with matching bra and panties. I know you will like them. These are the only lingerie you can wear. However, I have removed the panties out of each set. Those will serve as your reward. Each time you have sex with me when and how I want it, I will give you a pair of panties back. Then at the start of the next month, we will start again. If you want panties for today, bend over the kitchen table and I will enter you from behind so you don't wrinkle your dress. Of course, put the bra and stockings on first and wear nice high heels.

Chastity started to yell at me and just grabbed one of the new sets of lingerie from my hand and stocked off to our bedroom. She returned and said, "I hope you are satisfied' and leaned over the table poking her ass out towards me. I flipped up her dress and started with satisfaction at the sight before me. Her pussy was leaking already as once again she was excited by the absence of control. I couldn't help but swat her naked ass that was so nicely framed in by the garter belt and stockings and thrust into her. I went as slowly as I could so that she could be satisfied also. Although, given I am a 25 year-old male, slow is not really my mode!

When I finished, she got up and took the panties I handed her and pulled them over her high heels and onto her legs. She smile sweetly at me and said, "See you tonight."

I thought, now we are getting somewhere. But I shortly found out I was wrong.

Chastity had called in sick to work and gone directly to her mother's. When she got there, she proceeded to angrily share with her mother what I was doing to her. But the answer she got was a surprise.

Mother Davis told her, "Good, I told that boy he needed to take control of you and force you to have sex when he wanted it. I also told him to paddle you as needed. The idea with the panties he came up with on his own and I support it. Your father needed to help me understand his rights and my obligations and our marriage was better for it. I only wish he was still here to put me over his lap and warm my bottom before exercising his rights. I had the most intense orgasms when he did that. In fact, I believe you were conceived one afternoon, when he paddled me and then took me leaning over the railing of our deck in the bright sunshine. I was so aroused I couldn't even think about the picture we would be providing if one of our neighbors happened to look outside then."

"Now go to work and think about how to make your husband happy. When you do, he will treat you well and your sex life will be most fulfilling. You have no idea how grateful a sexually satisfied husband can be. In fact, you might want to trick him into paddling you every so often to spice things up."