Are there ethics to mind controlling? Not as such, no. Let's face it, usurping another person's free will is, at its least objectionable, rude and intrusive.
That having been said, I try not to be too obnoxious about it. While I have used my power to make myself independently wealthy (some would say absurdly rich), I have done so completely within the law and without radically reducing anyone else's wealth to enhance my own.
When it comes to women I take a similar approach. I always make certain that they completely enjoy their time with me and that they can go back to their regular lives without consequence or burden afterwards. I have never, and do not ever intend to, permanently enslave a woman. I'll even admit that this is not motivated by any particular level of altruism.
For a start, I'm easily bored. Once I'm through with a woman that's it. I'm through. Secondly, there is the fact that I really don't want the responsibility and aggravation involved in maintaining a harem. It's just way too much work.
Case in point was a young lady I've had my eye on for quite some time, but simply hadn't gotten around to yet. Yesterday I decided to take the plunge.
She was the cashier at the local coffee shop downtown. Her body was the sort of thing that most men dream of, but never get close to. Her five foot frame sported wide, womanly hips that ended in a nicely rounded ass that was just the right size for her stature. It was big enough to be noticed, but not big enough to distract from the rest of her (unless, of course, you happened to see her walking away from you). Above that was a very trim twenty-two inch waist. Her Face was nearly angelic with wide, blue eyes, a cute, little button nose, and a smallish mouth with lips made to be wrapped around a hard cock. Her face was framed by thick, light brown hair that, had she not had it tied back for her job, would have cascaded down over her shoulders alluringly.
It is unlikely, however, that most men noticed these enticing attributes because the main attraction, perhaps I should say the two main attractions, was her chest. Her tits were startlingly huge for someone of her height. Like many retail workers she wore a polo shirt with the name of the business emblazoned across it as part of her work uniform. In her case the letters of the name "The Bean Bar" were wildly distorted by the size and shape of the prodigious bust behind them.
Each morning I go into town to run a few errands and always make the coffee shop my last stop before going home. For several weeks I've been ensuring that she knew my name and was ever so slightly turned on by my presence as I walked up to the counter each morning. Yesterday, while waiting in line to place my order, I decided to probe her mind a bit more deeply than I had before to find out exactly what sort of sexual desires and proclivities she had.
She liked older men. That's a plus given that I am, to all appearances, forty-five and she's nineteen. She liked to give and receive oral sex. Good. But, she didn't like for a man to cum in her mouth let alone swallow. That could be adjusted with minor effort. She liked to dominate during sex. Temporarily that had to go. She liked anal. Not my cup of tea, but I had to admit that she certainly had the ass for it. I can be flexible and accommodating about some things. She had always had trouble achieving orgasms even with some very capable lovers. That I could definitely fix.
I also found out that she got off work at half past three that afternoon, had no classes that day, and no pressing plans for her afternoon off. Perfect.
I try to be careful about these things. I don't just randomly demand that a girl go home with me for a good fuck. I don't want anybody, for example, to lose time from their job on my account. A woman should not find herself suddenly unemployed just because I'm horny. Similarly with students, I don't want to them to miss any classes because of my desires. There seems to be a decreasing number of decently educated people in the word as it is. There is no reason that I should add to that problem.
As I mentioned, I've been making sure that she has been slightly aroused by my presence each morning. For the last week or so I've tweaking that just a wee bit more each day. After all, it's no good if a woman finds herself aroused and about to be fucked by a man of whom she has had no such thoughts previously. That always requires a good deal of extra effort to calm the woman down (they tend to panic in such situations) and make her enjoy the experience. If I set the stage properly she will come to enjoy it all on her own.
That's another reason that I don't want a harem. The hunt is half the fun. The wild sex is just the payoff for a plan well executed.
Given her predisposition toward older men I thought it possible that my little plan might be working better than I had thought. I hadn't boosted her arousal level to the point that she might think it odd or wonder what was happening to her. I had only raised it to the level that she might think of me as someone special or someone about whom she might entertain some small fantasies.
As my turn came and I approached the counter she smiled dazzlingly and said, "Good morning, Mr. Throckmorton."
It was a beautiful smile. She had white, even teeth and thick sensuous lips that should never have been allowed to speak any words except, "Fuck me harder, Mr. Throckmorton," or, "I want suck your cock." That, of course, would all come in due time.
"Good morning, Daisy," I said, "How are you this morning?"
"Oh," she said as she crossed her arms under her chest mountains, "I'm feeling better than I have in a long time."
Folding her arms like that pressed her breasts together in such a way that the word "bean" disappeared into a deep, cloth-covered cleavage.
"I have no classes today," she continued, "and I'm getting off work early enough in the afternoon to actually go out and enjoy myself for once."
"Well," I said feigning surprise, "That's wonderful news. Have you any big plans for your time off?"
"Nothing specific," she said. Then she leaned over the counter, looked me straight in the eye and said flirtatiously, "But, given half a chance I can think of a lot of fun things to do with that kind of time."
"I've no doubt that you can," I responded in kind.
"Your usual this morning, sir?" she asked.
"Yes," I said, "The usual. A large house blend to go. No room for cream. I'm a creature of habit I'm afraid."
"Not all habits are bad, you know," she said as she swiped my credit card through the machine, then she whispered, "and some bad habits are very, very good."
"I've no doubt that you know quite a few," I whispered back.
"I'll bet that you could teach me some that I've never heard of," she said in a breathy and enticing voice.
"I would certainly like to try," I said with a knowing smile.
Then I slid one of my business cards across the counter. She had enough on the ball to not look at it right then and there. However, she unfastened both the buttons her company polo shirt and stuffed the business card into the massive canyon between her tits.
She immediately re-buttoned herself and said, "Thank you and have a nice day," as though I was just another customer.
"You too, Daisy," I said with a big grin.
As I walked down to the other end of the counter to pick up my order I took the precaution of causing everyone in the shop, except Daisy and I, to forget that the conversation had taken place. All they would remember is that a near middle-aged man ordered coffee. It wouldn't do for her to get into any trouble for overtly flirting with a customer on company time or to get a reputation as a slut.
I knew that when she got around to looking at the card she would see that on the back I had hand written my home address and the words, "Six o'clock. Take a cab. I'll pay for the ride out and back."
Oddly enough the day passed rather quickly despite knowing what was coming that evening. I had much to do around my house that day. The garden needed weeding for a start. Yes, I suppose that I could hire someone to do that for me, but I take certain pride in doing myself.