Chapter 3
Borrowing the ring to deal with a parent
It was about 20 minutes after the school day ended that I first wore the ring. I had picked it up from Mr. Wilkinson a minute before but waited until I got back to my classroom to put it on. I was amazed that it felt loose going on, but that it changed shape to conform to my finger. Could that have really happened, a piece of metal changing in size on its own? It felt a little heavier than a normal class ring, but being as old as it was I can imagine that the metals it was made of were different than the strong, lightweight materials used for today's rings. I wondered a bit about the ring. Was it enchanted by magic somehow, a spell or ritual? Was it made of some unknown metal that had otherworldly properties? The ring started to feel a little tight, and I remembered what Tom had said the first time:
The ring will tell you if you are going off track.
I figured that the ring was telling me it didn't want me to find out its secrets, so I stopped thinking actively about it. When I thought about my upcoming meeting, it relaxed its grip on me.
Knock, knock.
"Come in, Mrs. Johnson," I said. "C'mon in Jack, I'm glad you're here, too, since this is about you and me." I touched the ring as I got up to greet them, and sent out a thought to Jack not to say anything stupid. I knew it was a broad statement, but I wasn't sure how detailed I needed to be. Plus, it worked as he didn't say anything at all as he and his mother joined me at a group of desks in the middle of the room.
Marissa Johnson was a healthy woman. As a fairly average looking white man, it is always a bit exotic to see an attractive black woman. About my height, a little heavy but not fat, just your basic above average middle-aged figure. Her skin was smooth, milk-chocolate smooth, and her deep brown eyes just drew me in. I couldn't help but smile, even though I knew she had a reputation for blasting teachers. This time it was going to be different.
"Before we get started, Mrs. Johnson, I wanted to thank you for coming in to see me. I know we could have done this over the phone, but in cases where I have a strong disagreement with a parent I want to have the face-to-face contact needed for both of us to keep our emotions in check and find a solution that's best for the student."
Marissa was a bit taken aback by that. She was expecting hostility, and I wasn't going to give it to her. "Umm, thank you Mr. Kramer. I really do want what's best for Jack, and it's frustrating to have to fight with teachers every year to get what I think that ought to be."
"Ok," I said. "First, I'd like Jack to talk. I think that perhaps there's a difference in what you are hearing and what is actually happening." I turned to look at Jack, and started to gently turn the ring around my finger. "Jack, I want you to tell your Mom what's going on in class. Tell her why your grades are not where they should be, and tell her why I have had to ask you to leave the room and go to the office a half-dozen times this quarter. Don't be nervous. If you've been telling Mom stories that aren't quite the way things really are, now is the time to come clean, and I promise in front of your mother that I won't hold it against you."
Jack sat upright in his chair, full of confidence. It was a big contrast to the Jack I was used to seeing, the Jack that ducked his head while he sat in his chair trying to avoid being called on, and the Jack that was always on the defensive, looking for an argument anytime he thought someone was trying to embarrass him. "Mom, I haven't been telling you the truth. I'm failing, and it's not Mr. Kramer's fault, it's mine. I haven't been doing my work because I don't want to, not because he won't help me with it. I can do it, I know the stuff. Problem is, if I get good grades, especially in Mr. Kramer's class which is supposed to be pretty hard, then my buds won't take me seriously because they'll think I sold out the street. They think the only education you need is the one you get on the street, and school is just a place to hang out with your buds and get a good rep.
"I've been giving Mr. Kramer a hard time, too. He's been nothing but good to me, trying to help me, trying to tell me that he thinks I can do it because I can do ok on the tests without doing any of the work. He's sent me out because I get mad at him because I know he's right, but I can't let anyone else know that, so I start a ruckus to get kicked out. That way, I protect my rep and I don't have to think any more about what he's sayin', know what I mean? It's hard being in that class sometimes, cause he makes sense, and I don't got the nerve to tell my boys to back off.
"Mr. Kramer, I'm sorry for all the problems I've caused you. I know I'm gonna get mine, and I'm cool with that. I just want you to know it's nothing personal. I like you, and I felt bad about telling lies on you, but I didn't see any other way to protect mine, you know?"
I was stunned at the power of the ring. Mrs. Johnson was stunned at her son's admission. Jack sat there waiting, knowing his mom was going to light him up, but not shrinking away. It was a weird silence for a few seconds. I touched the ring and projected a thought to Jack.
Good job. Maybe you should wait outside while your mom and I talk. We'll call you back in when we're ready.