Karen calls Patty to see if she is interested in going to the bookstore with her. Unfortunately Patty cannot get away and will call her in the evening instead.
After Dan leaves to help one of his friends do some maintenance on his car, she does a little work around the house and shortly after 10AM, she goes to the bookstore, full of questions. When she arrives, Shannon, the same girl who helped her before, is there behind the counter and they immediately begin an animated conversation.
Karen wants more information on training "Barney" and the girl calls to a striking, voluptuous woman who is browsing nearby.
The woman reminds Karen of a strict English teacher she had in high school but she has a nice smile. She walks over to them and is introduced to Karen as Diana, a clinical psychologist and professional mistress.
Karen asks how she can do both and Diana replies that being a mistress is more fun and more financially rewarding than seeing patients all day. In addition, using her psychological skills is a real asset when dealing with her subbies.
Shannon goes on to explain that Karen has just started to train her husband and has a chastity cage on him.
Diana asks how often she milks him and gets a questioning look in return. She then asks if Karen has internet access. She does.
Diana tells her to look up milking and prostate massage, explaining that a man locked in a chastity cage needs to be milked regularly by massaging his prostate if he is not allowed to have an orgasm.
This needs to be done weekly as part of his training routine, although there is no medical evidence on how often it needs to happen. If it is not done regularly, there is a chance he could develop an infection so it is better to err on the side of safety.
She continues on, telling Karen about another way to milk him, particularly if he has not been behaving properly. She is to take the cage off and slowly bring him to the edge of an orgasm telling Karen that she can do this repeatedly to keep his need strong.
When YOU are ready, stroke him to the point where he cannot stop his climax and immediately let go of his cock.
It is called a ruined orgasm and is very effective at keeping him in line.
He will not want to experience it more than once.
She also tells Karen to be sure that there are no "free lunches." Everything has a price and everything must be earned.
An example would be that he has to give you a dozen orgasms to earn one climax for himself, which could be a ruined orgasm. After all, it IS a climax, just not what he had in mind.
She goes on to tell Karen that she should get some vinyl surgical gloves and lube to massage his prostate manually for the first couple of times with him on his hands and knees.
"Once you know where his prostate is, you can use one of the glass probes that Shannon has in the case over there. Either the slightly curved one with the oval head or the straight one with the ball end will do."
Diana then asks Karen what she wants. "How far are you willing to go until you are satisfied?" She thinks about it and replies, "I want him horny and frustrated all the time and I want him to service me in every way. I want to use him like he has used me all these years and I'd also like to see him used by a couple of guys, fucked at both ends."
Diana says, "OK, do a web search on erotic hypnosis. You should be able to find audio files that will condition him to want to please you. If you have an iPod, you can put the files on it and play them while he is restrained.
There are several women that will even make tapes or files that focus on specific things you want to have him do, such as suck cock."
She turns to Shannon and tells her to get Karen a tube of "Man Delay" which will slow down the rate of his arousal. She tells Karen to put a pea-sized dollop in the tip of a condom and place it on his erection, being sure to get it worked all around the head, and especially on the underside.
This will allow her to ride him to several orgasms and add to his frustration because he will not be stimulated enough to reach a climax.
"And you must tease him mercilessly ALL of the time if you are going to keep him in line."
Karen is flabbergasted. Diana has given her a wealth of information to help her get started and Karen thanks her profusely. Diana asks Shannon to give Karen one of her cards, explaining that Shannon occasionally refers clients to her.
If she has any problems or is stuck, she can give her a call. In any event, she would appreciate Karen's updating Shannon on her progress.
Karen went over to the display case and selected the curved dildo that she thought would be easier for her to use.
Then she went to another case and looked at the realistic silicone cocks. She wanted one that was as close to the real thing as she could get and it had to have a suction cup base. Shannon helped her select one that looked and felt like the real thing.
After paying for her new toys, Karen went back home where she found Dan home from work and plugged into a football game. He immediately asked Karen to take the cage off him because the cheerleaders caused his cock to start getting hard. His problem was that the cage prevented a full erection.
She gave him a big smile and said, "That's the idea. Not now honey, after dinner." He pouted but went back to the game.
With that, she went into the bedroom to put the new items away and then went into the den to start her computer search.
She spent the next hour looking up "training your male." She found sites which has a wealth of information on training your husband.
After finding the training sites, she went on to research the other information she received from Diana. She found a number of femdom hypnosis websites. Some even had free audio files but most were set up to tailor the files to the customer's requirements.
She read everything that she could find that might be relevant to her situation, women from the UK and Italy had sites as well as those in the US, and she finally settled on one site and sent the woman an email.
Almost immediately, she received a response with an 800 number for her to call.
On her site were probably a hundred audio files focused on various fetishes and goals.
Karen was interested in at least five of the files but wanted to talk with the woman to get her recommendations so she decided to call the number.
The files she was interested in were on submission, chastity, orgasm control, eating pussy, several on sucking cock and one on being a size queen for anal sex.
So she called the hypnotherapist, Margaret, who was quite nice, bright and very interested in Karen's problem. She agreed with Karen's selection and recommended a couple of foundation files to make him more receptive.
Since Karen wanted to get ten files, she gave her a code to use that would give her a 20% discount on them.