These are some of my experiences. I decided to write them down and send them to online sites and hope for some feedback.
I'm 21 and I work at a downtown gas station. I've always loved older women, and I frequently meet single mothers at work and hope to charm them into asking for a later meeting. I've had some luck in the past, but nothing like what I experienced after I met Becky on a Friday night.
Being an evening shift manager, I have the relative freedom to roam about and talk to customers for a slightly extended period of time. On this night, a woman walked in and asked one of my coworkers for directions to a theater she was trying to find. I quickly jumped into the situation and asked if she would walk outside with me so I could point her in the right direction.
This woman looked classy, wearing a long, black fur coat. Her look was so enticing to me. She looked to be in her mid-40s and the first thing I noticed was her sultry voice. Something about the way she sounded really turned me on, as though it betrayed the experience she had behind her. She was about 5'4 and had a slim or maybe athletic figure hidden under her coat. Her face, to me, was beautiful. She simply looked like a gorgeous older mom.
Outside, I told her that several of the buildings in the distance were where she was headed, and she seemed satisfied enough and turned to leave.
"Are you and your husband going to a play?" I asked, trying to open up a little dialogue.
"No, I'm with my mom."
"Cool."
Having learned over the years that a little bravery in these short exchanges never hurts, I got over my initial fear of simply asking older women if they're single of if they like younger men. I used to think that questions like that would offend people, but all it does is send a little uncompensated compliment at worst. This knowledge led me to my next statement.
"Do you like younger guys?" I asked.
"What? I . . . uh . . . oh geez. You really caught me off guard."
A smile had spread across her face before she fumbled for words when she suddenly stopped and started writing on the corner of the paper she had jotted down the driving directions I had just given her. She tore off the corner and handed it to me.
"I'm Becky" she said as she offered me her hand.
I shook her hand. "I'm Jason."
"Well, Jason you can give me a call some time." She said with a little bit of a laugh as she headed towards her car.
As I walked inside I looked at her handwriting. Everything about this woman seemed classy, even the way she wrote her name on the paper.
The night wore on and I finished the shift at around 11 and went straight home because I was due back early in the morning. I worked the next day until the early afternoon and decided that I would give Becky a call to see what she had planned for her Saturday night.
Despite the fact that she did give me her phone number, I was still expecting very little from such a classy woman, so I was surprised when she answered the phone and sounded excited when she found out it was me.
"What are you doing tonight?" I asked her.
"Well, nothing that I know of. Do you want to get together?"
My heart started beating at the thought that she would want to see me in the next couple of hours.
"That'd be great. What do you like to do?" I asked.
"Well, do you want to get a bite to eat with me or maybe a drink?"
"I don't know. Do you just want to come over to my place? I don't spend much time in my own apartment and my roommate is gone for the next few days, so I was hoping to enjoy some time here."
Thinking she would balk at the idea of coming over to my apartment right off the bat, a rush of excitement went through me when she said, "Sure, but I want to get a little something to eat. Can I pick you up and go grab something before we go to your place?" "That'd be great. Just call me when you get into my neighborhood."
I gave her directions to my place and excitedly jumped in the shower, quickly going over the events of the last 24 hours. She happily gave me her number and agreed to come right over to my apartment. She has to be thinking what I'm thinking, right?