The mature, Sr. citizen Sally continues her adventures. Related to Sally's Sr. Sex - Jose'.
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Sex and the retired senior citizen, what a conundrum. In my story about my adventure with Jose', I gave some of my background. I am a married woman in my mid-60 and I have always loved sex. I differentiate between sex and love and was totally loyal to my husband for nearly 30 years. His ability for physical lovemaking has been missing since his operation for prostate cancer and after 10 years of no sex, he suggested that I was still too passionate and desirable to give up on sex. He is not into watching, but our understanding is that I can have sex with others, but there are no secrets between us and he will either watch or I will tell him all about my experiences.
When tgg gave me the green light, I knew that in order to be desirable to other men, I would have to lose the weight I had put on while married and loved for myself and not my body. I joined a gym; I walked on a treadmill, swam, started eating healthy, and practiced yoga. Neal has been my 40 year-old physical trainer at the gym for the past year. He saw me at my heaviest and has helped me lose 80 pounds in the past year. Because the elasticity of my skin is not what it once was, I have folds of loose skin, wrinkles on my face, arms, legs, and butt. Underneath I am toned, although 50 years of going bra-less as often as possible has also forced my full, heavy, sensitive breasts to hang lower on my chest.
Neal has touched me regularly from the beginning, correcting positioning or indicating where I should feel the burn, and I never thought anything of it until last week when I was wearing a new leotard and tights. He commented on the progress I had made and made a lewd comment about what he would like to do with me. He said it to boost my self confidence and while he did that, he also got me thinking about what it would be like to have sex with him. He would be safe - he knew about my loose skin and seemed to like me for me and wasn't put off by my wrinkles.
Neal had invited me to join him at the juice bar on numerous occasions, but I had always given an excuse. This time I accepted and we spent his entire lunch break talking and getting to know each other. I told him about tgg and he told me how he had broken up with his very shallow girlfriend 6 months earlier and while he was looking for safe sexual relief, he was not interested in an emotional relationship.
When we parted, he kissed me on the cheek and said he would see me tomorrow.
Over dinner, I told tgg about Neal and that I thought he might be a potential sexual partner. Tgg suggested that I invite Neal to have dinner with us on his next day off from the gym or any evening if his work day ended early enough.
I invited him for Thursday; Friday was his day off so we could talk late if we wanted to.
I cooked a really healthy dinner and the three of us retired to the Family Room to continue the conversation we had begun over dinner. Tgg was very blunt as he discussed his sexual limitations and our understanding. At 10:00, he announce that he was going to take the dog for a walk and would be back about midnight. This was his sign that he approved of Neal and whatever happened would be up to us.
Neal looked at me and said, "What do you think?"