{I suppose I should post this to the "loving wives" section but I am getting long in the tooth and my wife Debra is only a decade and change behind me so "mature" it is.
Things have been happening and I concede some of it concerns me.
My wife Debra was away for damn near a year, finishing up her education. Old Doctor Barker, the on staff physician at the medical clinic where Debra has been a Nurse for as long as we have been together passed away.
The new medical system has a terrible shortage of actual Doctors, and relies on Registered Nurse Practitioners. The system offered Debs the job, even paid for the last year of her schooling in return for a 10 year contract. With a huge increase in pay, like close to 300%?? But that required that degree.
Before, she pulled down about 75K per year, and more or less ran things anyway. Now, it's around 225K, and she really does run things.
For nearly a year, Debra was 1800 miles away, coming home for a weekend every two or three weeks.
I didn't write much during that period, Debra is my inspiration. She is as sexy as a female can be, loving, attentive, and has never shown even the slightest hint of jealousy.
It was a year of that, mostly apart. I had lived alone for a decade prior to meeting her, which meant I could do it again since it was just a single year. I sure didn't like it much, though.
She finally was finished and came home. The same as she was before, except.. different?
How to explain that? Different, barely, and I just could not put my finger on it?
Things went back to being like they were before, along with a couple of surprises? Before, we did some rather sexy things, perhaps even mildly kinky.
It is still that way, it's just that now there was an under current of something I could not quite get a handle on. Also that tiny little black nurse named Rwanda came into the picture, and yes, things changed and quickly.
In the back of my mind, due to some recent events, is that question? Just how much is.. TOO much?
I read the stories here, see some of the things people do, and how they handle problems.
I just never figured it would happen to me.
Yes, this rambles. But then that is just the way I am.}
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The morning after the massage session at our house, me going first, then Rwanda, I woke up right on schedule. The first thing to pop into my head was the vision of my wife Debra leaned over, performing oral sex on Rwanda while I rubbed that lovely dark skinned upper body.
And that was something of a surprise. I did expect things to get naughty, that there would be touching, all of that. But oral sex?
To me, that IS sex. My only response was to watch.
Now Rwanda is 36 years old, vastly younger than I or Debra, different right there for most situations.
Tiny, uninhibited, relaxed and most certainly attractive. Plus she is black? I only rarely have had any thoughts about that one way or another, there are just a few of that ethnicity living in our area. Simply people to me so let's get that part out of the way right off the bat. Rwanda shows no signs at all of race concerns either, the way things should be in my opinion, although I am aware it is a concern in some places in America.
Rwanda is now a nurse here at the local clinic my Debra runs. She is a beautiful and tiny thing, bubbly, happy, smiling and impossible to not instantly literally fall in love with. Debra and I both did exactly that.
She also has, or I guess I should say had, a boyfriend, a white young man about 6 years her junior named Tyson which she confided with us that she has not even had sex with yet?
Just a little bit of necking and some light petting.
I will explain the "had" part in a moment.
Debra even asked her why she not taken the relationship to the next step? The response was that it was different with a boyfriend?
Which I guess I do not get at all. Fiddling around, doing sexy things like we had been doing was fine and fun with friends, the boyfriend held at arms length for some reason?
Nope, I don't get that.
Perhaps withholding intimacy was with the intent of the relationship becoming more serious? Like marriage, babies, all of that?
I suppose that meant that Tyson had no real idea of the way things were between the three of us.
Tyson has been over to our place a number of times, I just could not see the fit between the two of them at all but who knows what someone else likes in a friend or potential mate for life?
The truth is, she is 36, I am almost 72, and Rwanda seems to like me and my wife Debra, also? Tyson is barely 30.
Like I said, who knows the way of things? We sure do like her though.
Tyson? Well, he is OK, polite, smiling. He wears a bill cap on backwards and is overly skinny. I guess maybe it is that I find him a bit on the dumb side, sort of unaware of what is going on around him?
As it turned out, it was more likely me that didn't know what was going on. Tyson drove a brand new Corvette, not one of the crazy expensive ones but still..?
That should have been a clue I suppose.
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The very first time Rwanda came over for us to swap massages was fun, I was first and I got what can only be described as a delicious massage, with BOTH Debra and Rwanda working on me.
Laughing and teasing, comments full of wise cracks, it was great fun, especially since it had been close to a year since I got one of those from anyone but my Debs.
I just could not do anything like that without Debra around, it just didn't seem right to me? I mean, there are massages and then there are the kind she and I both like. Yes, I know, not supposed to, what with society and all of that.
Hard to do any of that with Debra gone and only home a few days each month.
Rwanda was the one that did the "happy ending" part, this while Debra worked on my upper body.. and watched? First while on my belly, then the second time while on my back.
Naughty and fun stuff.
Yep, up for twice, close to back to back. No one believes that, hell, I am almost 72. But I don't care if anyone does, just call this a story, then.
That by itself was completely different, except for a few times down in Reno where we get what are called "tandem" massages, it was the first time Debs had been in the room during a rubdown. Same with myself, I never watched what went on when July or Nikola were over to our place to give us both rubdowns.
Maybe I should have? We both knew, of course we did, so I suppose in some way I gave my blessing?