In my two score years and ten, I have had my share of women: two wives and a few girlfriends, brief encounters and longer love affairs. They have all brought something to a full and rich life, helped me develop as a person and been good friends. Some have loved me and ultimately betrayed me, some have just been along for the ride and left when the going got tough, others eventually strained my patience and tolerance to breaking point.
Recently, after a drought of two years, I met a remarkable woman who comes close to being a perfect lover, partner and friend. She is Chinese, warm and friendly. Her name is Yan and she is slim, with small firm breasts and a beautiful full firm bottom. She has long legs which look sexy when she wears high heels and short skirts. Her long, lush, wavy black hair is her crowning glory: it frames her beautiful features, black eyes, small nose and full-lipped mouth. When she lays down her hair spreads about her on the pillow. It always smells delightful when I kiss her neck or when she bends over to kiss me. Her skin is the colour of honey, soft and cool which I delight in kissing and caressing. She smiles a lot, is rarely angry or down and has a very positive outlook on life. She is ten years younger than me, very affectionate and above all the only woman I have met who is as incessantly enthusiastic about sex as I am. She has a young son who she adores, so for the moment we don't live together. I see her often at weekends, and one evening during the week, when her son is with his father.
Evenings with my lover start when I call on her on my way home from work. Occasionally, we will stay at her apartment, but more often, we will end up at my house, which has more space. I like to cook, so the early part of the evening is taken up with food preparation, talk over a glass of wine while the meal cooks, and more conversation over dinner. If the evening is warm, we like to eat in the garden, in the cool shade of the house, looking out over my slightly unkempt but verdant garden. Yan always dresses in a way that attracts and excites me, though she denies doing anything special. She is one of those lucky women upon whom most clothes look good, as she has a good body, and a touch of make-up finishes the ensemble. I always feel so lucky to be with her, talking to her, admiring her and anticipating the evening ahead.
Later in the evening, if weather permits, we might go for a walk or sit a little longer in the garden. On cold nights it is great to light a fire and snuggle on the sofa with some music playing in the background. In either case, holding hands and kissing begin the process of lovemaking that may continue late into the night. I like to take a bath or a shower before bed, and sometimes we share this, lying at opposite ends of the bath, bubbles all around of standing together under a rain of hot water. Sometimes we start our foreplay here, other times we wait until she has dressed for the night ahead.
Yan, like most women, likes to dress up to go out and is equally happy to dress to please me in the bedroom. I find her irresistible dressed in just panties or a thong and if the night is cool, a silk tee-shirt. Stockings and a suspender belt are another favourite for cooler evenings. Over the time I have known her she has acquired a large collection of beautiful underwear, some presents from me, some she bought herself. Surfing the internet together for something new for her to wear is an effective form of foreplay. My favourite outfit at the moment is a bright red Lycra singlet which shows off her terrific figure, and a black thong with a smooth, velvety texture. There is a full length mirror in the bedroom and if she stands in front of it I like to stand behind her, my hands on her hips while I kiss her neck while I drink in the view of her lovely figure.
She likes to touch me and says that my skin is softer than a woman's - sometime I must ask her how she knows this! She sometimes falls asleep with her hand holding my genitals and indeed I have woken to find her hand still in place, and this is guaranteed to make me harden. So once we are in bed, kissing and cuddling, her hands will find me, and her touch strikes the first sparks of desire.