Ch 1.
I am a 50 years old, 6'1", 192 lbs. I divorced my wife 6 years ago. And no, I do not have children.
As a senior executive in a large company that produces a variety of medical products, I make good money.
After being married for close to 20 years, with the last 5 of these entangled in nonstop arguments and fighting, I like my life the way it is right now. No more headaches...
Occasionally I get bored being by myself, but then I can visit one of my friends and have fun together in a bar or occasional restaurant.
Over the years I have had occasional flings, but nothing serious. They usually lasted for weeks or months.
Lately our workplace got good publicity on line and several big name companies offered to buy our products.
The 7 of us on the board decided to expand our team.
We hired 20 new employees. Some were 'stolen' from our competitors, others joined us because they were interested in working for a company with good prospects, other ones for the generous money & benefits and few others were chosen after graduating successfully from top universities.
Each one of the new employees was assigned to shadow a veteran employee. The tutoring was supposed to be one on one for at least 6 months.
The one who became my trainee was Lora. She was in her 20s who just graduated from Stanford.
She was originally from the upper mid west and was dressed very conservatively. About 5'6" and 135 lbs. Long blond hair framed her pretty face.
On our first few days together, she was most of the time listening to my explanations and hardly talked.
But whenever she did speak, it became apparent that she was smart and highly motivated to excel in her new job.
After few days it became a burden to be formal with her, so one time I decided to joke with her and see if I could break the invisible barrier between us.
One day we were discussing 2 new products that were intended to improve men and women resistance to age related dementia. As usual, she was 'too' serious.
I couldn't resist and said to her, "Lora, you know, women in general are much smarter and more sophisticated than men. We may be stronger but we are very simple and naive. Nowadays, when most women do not depend on men strength or money, why the hell marry one?!..."
Of course, my question was provocative and more of a joke, but I wanted to find out what's hiding behind her always-so-serious faΓ§ade...
She stared at me and for the first time I saw her cute smile, "I agree with you. We women do not NEED to get married in order to succeed in business or life. In fact, we can even have children by artificial insemination, and we can entertain ourselves much better with our girlfriends... I think that most women still remember their childhood fantasies about a prince that will take them to a magic life of safety and adventures and having it all and... everlasting perfect life. Personally I do not see the need to ever get married and suffer..."
"Girl, I like your ideas. And since I realize for the first time that you can talk about other subjects than work, how about being less formal from now on... Unless we are at work with other employees, you'll stop calling me Mr Gibson and use my first name, Sean. OK?..."
Her smile broadened, "I am new around here and I didn't know enough about you to talk about anything BUT work..."
"Lora, knowing you for only few days, it is my opinion that you are going to do very well! You are highly motivated and hard worker - The 2 most important qualities that will help you achieve any goal you strive for at work. I just wish that you and I be less serious and be able to feel comfortable to talk about other things in life, not only work..."
"Sean, unless I know more about you and you about me, it may be difficult to be sure what subjects have to be off the table..."
"I agree. So tell me about yourself."
"I am 25, raised in Iowa with 3 older brothers and then got accepted to business school at Stanford. I have a boyfriend, who I have seen last time about a month ago, because he is in his third year of medical school in New York. For now I live in an apartment with my cat name Oreo... And what about you?"
"I am exactly twice your age. 'Happily divorced' for several years... without children. I graduated from Duke many years ago and work for this company almost 20 years now. I love to travel, photography, certain sports, Scorsese and Tarantino movies as well as good books. Do you have hobbies?"
"I love to travel too. I visited some of the national parks and several major cities, but I never left this country..."
"Lora, working with us will give you multiple opportunities to travel in America and abroad for conferences, meet our colleagues and visit our factories abroad."
She chuckled, "You make it sound so tempting."
"I didn't know if part of my job was to teach you how to relax and smile more... I really liked to hear that beyond work you have other 'things' in life... By the way, our annual company party is a week from now. I am not sure if you were notified about it or not, but you should come!"
Hesitant, "Sean, I am new in town and at work. I do not know anybody and I am not sure how to dress... I am afraid to be very uncomfortable there... Can I have a raincheck?..."
"Lora, I'll pick you up and bring you with me to the party. It's not formal at all, although you should dress nicely.
I'll introduce you to people you might find interesting or important for your climbing up the ladder. You'll have good food, alcoholic beverages... Trust me, you'll enjoy it much more than sitting with Oreo in front of your TV..."
Lora blushing, "But I told you, even if I agree to go, I am not sure what to wear..."
"My secretary, Jean is about your age and she attended these parties four times already. She has good taste and will suggest to you what will look nice on you. Now if she decides that you need new clothes, shoes, cosmetics or jewelry, she'll take you shopping. Don't worry about the cost. We'll take it from our professional account or I'll lend you the money and you'll give it back to me once you start getting higher salary. I want to be proud of you during the party and money the the least problem. OK?..."
Lora's face reached a crimson color, "Sean, you are a great instructor at work. Why are you trying so hard to help me?..."
Jokingly, "Look Lora, the truth is that I hate you! I hate opinionated young blond women! However, I would be more appreciated among my other colleagues if I succeed in making you a very good employee and a team player, so I force myself to pretend that I care about you..."
Smiling now, "Sean, you are such a lousy liar... I can see that you DO like me, but I am not sure why... Well, if you insist, introduce me to Jean and I'll try my best to not embarrass you at the party..."
I called Jean, explained to her the assignment of helping Lora prepare for the party and then left Lora to go to a board meeting. The meeting took about an hour.
I came back and noticed the two ladies chatting comfortably and laughing.
Once they saw me, the chatter stopped. Lora stood up and waited for me.
I looked at Jean, "Didn't you tell Lora that every time she sees me she has to salute me? Did you remind her that I appreciate employees who address me as 'His Royal Heinie'... Sorry, I meant 'his Royal Highness'?..."
Both girls laughed and Jean almost fell from her chair. "Sean is such a pretender... He likes to show off as a tough person or even a jerk boss, but trust me, he is a very soft teddy bear..."
Lora joined me and together we walked toward our working area.