[Bonus Turn On Tip: If your older girl is shy about trying something kinky, she may be curious and you don't want to scare her off!!
You might want to do what one of my erotic pen-pals did to introduce me to the dark side.
He actually wrote me a story where he wrote me in the dominant role in a fantasy. It was very tame, just using his tie to tie his wrist to the headboard, but it was enough to tempt me.
If your girl is into your story (make it tame to start...you are just testing out the water!) she will respond. If she is not into it, let it go. You may want to share this story with her.]
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The Time Angel Peeked Into The Dark Side
Watching the gorgeous dark-haired man sitting on the low stool in front of her, Angel took a deep thoughtful breath. Kneading her calf with deep knowing strokes, he held her foot snugly under his arm against his side, she put her phone down and sighed.
It was impossible for her to concentrate with his hands wringing the days misery out of her spent calf muscles. Sighing, she resisted the urge to run her fingers through his thick hair. She hated the whine in her voice but she couldn't help herself, "Gino, I'm tired of being home alone on date night. Why are all the beautiful men gay or married?"
"Come on. How can it be hard for you to get a date?" His eyes sparkled at her. If he wasn't attached Angel would definitely spend more time with him. Brazilian and a closet worshipper of women's feet, his cousin's wife's sister's girlfriend lets him do his foot magic for tips at her salon. It can be a long wait to get an appointment with Gino. Angel has him on speed dial.
"Aw, I love you! Over the last year, for sure I have met some great guys. Intelligent, funny, adorable, curious, interesting, did I say funny?"
"And the problem is?"
"The problem is I can't get a second date. The men that are attracted to me don't follow through. Arrrggghhh!"
Laughing, "Easy girl, give me that foot." Squealing in fake panic, She tried to pull her foot away from his masterful hands. Knowing that the acupressure he used during her weekly pedicures always took the edge off her anxiety, she trusted him, even though it hurt like bloody hell.
"Have you ever thought of being dominant in your intimate relationships?"
"Funny you should say that." Looking around the salon to make sure there were enough casual listeners to make telling this story fun, she went on. "When Fifty Shades came out a few years ago, I was completely turned off to the idea of rough or kinky sex. The whole idea appalled me. Ew. Ew in a big way."
"In fact Fifty Shades of Grey was pretty much responsible for getting me into writing erotica in the first place. Oh that feels so good." She paused to allow him to penetrate her calf with his fingers. Angel squirmed but surrendered. "Let go of the stupid shit." He crooned. She howled. "I love you, Gino."
Moving down to her feet, oh my god, the pain ahead made her bolster her courage, Gino purred, "Go on..."
"Well, little did I know what a full circle would happen. Four years later and I am writing hot vanilla erotica. Fantasies designed to educate and titillate. Training men to be Turn On Masters. Me, a grown up catholic girl and former bible study teacher."
"No poking for you today, I have something else in mind." He grinned smoothing the golden jojoba oil into his palms. "Tell me more." Tuning in to exactly what she needed, Gino prepared to give her the legendary specialty massage he was known for.
"Well I have a certain erotic pen-pal who has been a pleasure partner of mine for about three years now. Sometimes, when we are in the groove and the turn on between us is full throttle, I swear to you it is better than in person."
"When I gush when I am sexting an erotic pen-pal, the emotional relief of being fully orgasmic in complete safety can bring me to tears. We don't really role play, but we do play out convos in random public places."
