I live in an apartment building, and it has an elevator, and although I sort of don't like closed spaces, I usually use the elevator because it is convenient and because I want to get over this sort of phobia I have about small spaces. I live on the sixth floor, so using the stairs is totally practical, and a good way to stay in shape.
So today I get on the elevator to go to work, and it stops on 4 and an old guy gets on. I had seen him before and assumed he lived in the building, but didn't know his name and had never really spoken to him.
The elevator starts down and almost instantly bounces to a stop and a light goes on at the panel. And the overhead lights go off. The emergency light is enough to make out shapes, and I don't panic... but the old guy says something like "whoops" and I realize he is trying to make me feel comfortable being stuck in an elevator.
We stand silently for about a minute and he says, "Well this hasn't happened before in the 7 years I have lived here... have you been here longer?"
"No, I moved in about 2 years ago. A first for me, I have never been in a stalled elevator before. But I have read stories about power failures. Do you know how to contact someone, or what to do?"
"Not really, but we can probably figure it out together." I generally like older men, and he seemed to be going out of his way to not 'talk down' to me, which I appreciated.
He started reading the instructions on the red phone box above the control panel, and opened it and took out the phone. Someone had cut the phone cord, and the phone itself looked to be very old- a "dial" phone and not the more recent redesign.
"Well", he laughed, "this may make it a little harder to contact anyone, but they surely must know what is going on- and if they don't, lots of people use this elevator and someone will report it is not working."
I mentally agreed, but said nothing. I was glad I had peed before heading out to work, and I hoped he had also- just like me to be "practical", but just in case I looked in my purse and found a zip-lock bag that might work as a sort of toilet if either of us needed it.
"I'm going to make some noise, if that's OK with you- just in case nobody has figured it out yet."
I was feeling strange, the small space and this large old man, twice my size at least, and something about him seemed to "bother me". He was so pleasant, and so friendly, it seemed as if he were treating me as an old friend, not a stranger. Despite the dark, I could now see quite well and he seemed to be "presentable", about the age of one of my dad's friends probably, or maybe even older.
He started yelling, using a deep voice- not his speaking voice- and it sort of "got to me" in the sense that I held very still as he "roared". Was this an animal reaction to his maleness? despite his advanced age?