In all the fantasies in my mind, I'm a thin, svelte, beautiful woman. In real life I'm a plump, voluptuous, attractive woman. I have curves like a real woman, not angles like Barbie.
The man I'm looking for doesn't have to be a Ken. (Actually, I don't want a Ken, because I want a man with working parts.) I'm not adverse to finding a good looking man. I like a sculpted chest, and I love a nicely formed ass, one that fits well into my hands. Those usually are my standards, I have been known to take a chance on a man who doesn't meet those rules. But one thing the man has to possess is the ability to carry on a decent conversation. (Two things I don't get at home, great sex, and good conversation.)
(At this point I'm going to add again, please don't send me any moralistic comments about me cheating on my husband. I have accepted the fact that my husband thinks I'm too fat to have sex with, and I deal with it. He is ok with my decision to find my pleasure else where. And I will add here that other than no sex, we have a decent marriage. Another thing I will add is that I do have responsible, safe sex. Ok, I will now climb down off my soap box.)
I also want to mention this, to me, penis size is not an important issue. Sorry to disappoint all you guys who think bigger is better. It's not about size, it's about how you use it. Yeah, a big untrained penis will get me off, but a smaller well trained one will pleasure me a lot more.
For those of you who have read my submissions, you know that I LOVE SEX! (Yes, the caps are necessary cause I do really love sex, it's my favorite hobby.) Although, I didn't get really good at it until my later years. And I didn't discover multiple orgasms until a few years ago. I love sucking a cock,(and yes, I am bragging here), I am damn good at it. I have a few male friends who will write glowing letters of recommendation of my talents and one said that sucking cock is my super power.
I've just decided while typing this, that I'm going to make this submission all about me. What I like done to me and what I like doing to my partner. I think I can get you aroused with this submission. If not, sorry about that.
First thing, I love foreplay, I'm not a wam-bam-thank-you maam type woman. (Although a quickie is necessary at times.) I love to start with some passionate kissing, tasting, touching and caressing. Warm moist lips touching warm moist lips. Then going to some tongue action, running my tongue around and over his lips. He opens his mouth and our tongues do some wrestling. I like to move back to his lips putting little soft kisses all around his mouth.
Then back to total lips. Before long his tongue is out again, and I take his tongue in my lips and begin to suck and lick at his tongue. Doing a sort of mini blow job on his tongue. As you can imagine, hands are doing some roaming at this time. I reach to pull off his shirt, because I want to feel skin to skin. You know the fumbling, unbuttoning, pulling off clothes that goes on. Not really caring where the clothes go.