A Seniors Sexual Gratification Bed

An intimacy bed can overcome age related sex problems

Age related decline in libido, vaginal lubrication, body image, and erectile dysfunction will usually decrease a seniors sexual desire. Also physical decline in muscle mass, joint movement, aches and pains will also decrease performance. However, 59% of men in the 70 to 79 age group still have had sex or masturbated within the last year. There is still high interest in sexual activities if accommodations can be made for their physical decline. This story addresses these issues.

I have developed a bed specifically designed for the sexual gratification of the elderly. The bed has a 2.5 foot by six foot rectangular frame built from lightweight 1.5 inch PVC pipe. The four corners are three-way PVC elbows. The corners are attached to four 11 inch tall telescoping floor jacks that can be raised up to 16 inches. The top of the jacks have a knob glued to it that fits inside the PVC elbow to prevent it from sliding off. The frame is covered with a one inch mesh plastic netting attached with zip ties.

The bed with the jacks rests on a quarter inch thick four foot by 6 foot plywood sheet as a foundation. Riding on top of the foundation is a 18 inch by 40 inch shop creeper with caster wheels that is 4.5 inches tall. For most of the readers a shop creeper is what you see mechanics using when they work underneath a jacked up car. Without the creeper crawling around under the lady on your back is very strenuous. This entire bed with the foundation and the creeper are placed on top of another bed to get it off the floor. The only tool that is required is a saw to cut the PVC pipe and to cut the 4 ft. by 8 ft. plywood to 4 ft. by 6 ft. A scissors is also used to enlarge the holes in the net. The entire materials cost for the bed is about $250.

To use the intimacy bed a naked lady will lay face down centered on the net mesh. Her partner will lay face up on the creeper. The floor jacks are raised enough to allow him to move easily beneath her body. He will then enlarge holes in the netting with scissors to allow her face, arms, breasts, vulva and feet to either protrude through the net or be easily accessible from below. Another hole is also enlarged on the left side of her vulva to allow him to stick his left arm up through the net and rub her buttock area. The back of the lady can be covered with a blanket or a robe for warmth. And the top of the net can be covered with a sheet with holes cut to match the holes in the netting, if needed to improve comfort. The naked partner lies beneath the lady on the creeper facing her vulva while she faces his penis. A wedge shaped cushion is placed under his head or under his groin area to adjust the head or the groin to be higher and allow a more comfortable access to the partner.

Gravity Controlled Sexual Pleasure

With age, gravity controls our body shape. With women their breasts sag as they get older and heavier. In men their bellies get bigger and sag over their belt. When men lie on their back their bellies flatten. With women on their back their breasts also flatten. In contrast, a woman laying face down on this bed with her breasts in the net holes will recover their twin peaks shape, without using a bra. A man lying below will have a much better view and easier time squeezing them around his face or penis. Another advantage is that he can use an eyedropper filled with milk to lightly drip milk on her breasts and catch the milk dripping from her nipples into his mouth. He would then lick both of the breasts clean after each drippings. Who said only recent post pregnant women can breastfeed? The milk could also be placed on his penis and her vulva. Then the milk can be licked off by their partner, although it may look like semen it may taste a lot better. Both partners arms and hands and mouth are free to allow fingering, masturbation, and breasts and nipple contact. Intercourse is also possible, although the body position is limited.

Oral sex is the preferred method of gratification. However, if oral sex is distasteful for either party, manual masturbation is still an option. I personally prefer breast to penis rubbing over manual rubbing. A third choice is sex toys. A vibrator is the most common. A silk cloth wet with warm water can be used to cleanse, moisten, clean up messes, and softly massage the genital area. The creeper has an area for storing these sex tools. During extended play, a warm blanket can be draped over the person on top extending over the bottom. This will trap the body heat from both parties. The blanket will also reduce room light reaching the bottom area. I suggest a string of small battery operated LED lights attached to the lower side of the netting. This will not only improve his view but also let him find any sex toys, condoms, silk cloths, bowls of warm water, or eyedropper filled with milk he might want to use.

The intimacy bed features

The real advantage of the intimacy bed is that all of her weight is not on top of the bottom person. This makes longer lasting sex play possible especially for overweight people. Her stationary position allows him to adjust his position by easily sliding the creeper. This makes sexual activity less strenuous and more acceptable for older people. Another great advantage is the very close position (inches) between their heads and the groin areas. For example, in the past you may have masturbated your partner while laying side by side on a bed, but could you see how each stroke affects her movements?

Does her clitoris peek out from under its hood with some strokes, does she press down on some strokes, but withdraw on others? Could you watch herself masturbate and learn from her technique? She may say that she doesn't like oral sex. However, when masturbating his penis with only inches from her mouth, she may find taking a few licks hard to avoid. This position opens up many new possibilities that you may not have thought of. Have you ever considered rubbing his nose on your clitoris or your vagina opening? Note that the bed is on jacks that do not need to be adjusted as a horizontal bed. If he likes oral sex and she doesn't, the bed can be tilted lower toward his head for an easier reach, and vice versa if she likes oral sex and he doesn't.

In man speak he may say: "How about I jack up your chassis, give you a lube job, tighten your nuts and bolts, and change the oil." In human or women's speech: "Honey I have been missing our sexual activity. Can we take out our intimacy bed so we can rub each other with a silk cloth, French kiss each other, and massage one another until we have a nice relaxing happy ending to this glorious evening." I propose a sexual routine much like the following: Note: I have erectile dysfunction (ED) so intercourse is not included.

Foreplay: The purpose is to arouse the penis and vulva and let them swell with blood slowly and not aggressively attack them. He might start by massaging and cleansing her feet and toes with a dampened silk cloth. He will slide forward under her body stopping at her vulva, where he will bathe it with a damp silk cloth, to cleanse and remove any trace of pee. He may then give it a soft kiss. Next sliding forward, he may rub her breasts against his nipples. Sliding further forward, he will rub her breasts against his face, suck on her nipples, and breastfeed milk dripping from her breasts applied with a dropper bottle. Sliding further forward under her mouth, He may ask her to stick out her tongue so he can suck it and French kiss.

Being all the way forward where he used his hands and mouth to caress her body, he will wash his penis with the silk cloth and begin to slide back toward her feet using his penis to caress her body. He will stop with his penis below her mouth and ask for a light French kiss. Maybe he will drip milk on his penis and ask her to lick it off. Sliding further back under her breasts, he will squeeze them around his penis and ask her to do some upper body push ups with her hands pushing on the foundation. This will lift her breasts up and down sliding on his penis. Next sliding further back, he will rub his penis back and forth on her vulva. You both should be highly aroused by this time. Foreplay is over. It is time to get serious about gratification. You will slide forward with your face under her vulva and will allow her to control the next moves.

Vulva Play: The purpose is to fully arouse the vulva leading to an orgasm. The vulva is the conductor of an orchestra telling the players how and when to perform. The players are his mouth, tongue, fingers, hands, and her hands. A vibrator or his penis may also be called for, if needed. For example, the conductor may start by asking for wet licks to lubricate the area. This may be followed by her hand rubbing her vulva the way she likes. She may then take one of his fingers and show him where and with what pressure she likes to be rubbed. Next she may use two of his fingers and enter the vagina to rub her G-spot. She may then stop the rubbing and ask for the tongue tip to just touch but not lick her clitoris. As she continues, remember that she is the conductor, and she can call on the players when and how she wants to build the rhythm for her music. His left hand can reach up through a hole in the net and massage her buttock and between her legs during this performance. The whole performance can take 15 to 30 minutes, so be patient.

Penis Play: The purpose is to fully arouse the penis leading to an orgasm. The penis is now the conductor and her mouth, tongue, breasts, and both his and her hands are the players. The performance may include oral sex, manually massage with her and/or his hands, and with her breasts. He is the conductor and he can call on all his players when needed to build the music to a crescendo for his climax. Remember it takes much longer to arouse a woman than a man and it also takes much longer for a woman to become not aroused after an orgasm. So while she is playing in your band do not forget her vulva still needs attention. Multiple orgasms are possible for many women.

Afterglow: I suggest taking a blissful nap and enjoy the contentment that an orgasm can bring to both bodies. Both men and women can self masturbate to and orgasm without an intimacy bed. However, the ability to comfortably masturbate and learn from each other with little physical effort enhances your bonding and greatly makes you appreciate each other. Playing together is required for a lifetime of satisfying sex.

To exit the bed, He slides the creeper out from under her and gets off the bed. She pushes her arms up off of the foundation and pulls them out of the net holes. She can then be helped off the bed. The bed, the creeper, the plywood foundation, and any sex toys, are removed and stored in a closet.