I am posting a series of true stories about my encounters with "providers" around the country. I totally respect these women and in these stories have no intention of demeaning them.
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This story goes back almost a decade. It occurred about a month after my first date with Carla in Cincinnati. This story is basically a continuation of my "A Date with Carla" story earlier. I thought that visit was about as good of a "date" as I could expect anywhere. Boy was I wrong!
I have to admit that this was a unique experience because, for the first time as a "hobbyist", I was forced to decide whether to proceed with my date.
As soon as I had my travel plans to Cincinnati finalized, I contacted Carla to set up our second date. I actually got a bit of a stiffy writing the email. I told her my schedule and asked if we could meet again. Within an hour, I got a reply that she was happy to hear from me and couldn't wait for us to be together again. I was humbled.
Her email went on and then she almost knocked me over. She had a request. Before continuing, I knew that I would do whatever she wanted. However, I came to realize that it was not that simple.
She said that her best friend, Debbie, would like to discuss joining us. I was gobsmacked. I've never had that request. I knew nothing about Debbie, but if she was a friend of Carla's, she was friend of mine.
I asked Carla what the story was. I could not make up this answer. Debbie is a long-time friend of hers. Six months ago, Debbie lost her husband in a terrible car accident. It took her awhile, understandably, for Debbie to start getting back to real life without the love of her life. Debbie and Carla were more like sisters than friends. They both confided in each other on everything. Debbie knew that Carla had been seeing other guys as an escort with the permission of her husband, Larry.
As I was reading the email, I wondered where this was going. It seems that Carla had told her all about her date with me a month or so ago. Debbie wanted to know every detail and Carla shared the entire story. That fact didn't bother me in the least. In fact, I was kind of proud. Carla assured Debbie that I was a very nice guy who had totally respected her during our wonderful time together.
Carla knew that Debbie and her husband had enjoyed a very rich sex life, but it was just between the two of them. Debbie also knew that Carla's husband, Larry, was not the least bit interested in sex, which is why Carla saw other guys, to put it delicately.
Debbie asked Carla what it would be like if the two of them went on a "date" with a guy Carla trusted. It was about this time that I emailed Carla. My timing was perfect! I was beginning to think I should go out and buy a lottery ticket.
To kind of cut to the chase, Debbie asked Carla if she would be interested in joining her for a date with me. Of course, Carla and I did not talk about this topic when we were together previously, so Carla couldn't speak for me. Now, here was an email from me asking Carla for a second date. Kismet!
I replied to Carla telling her that I would be beyond excited to see both of them. I didn't even ask Carla what Debbie looked like. I didn't really care. I trusted Carla implicitly.
I emailed Carla asking if I could call her and discuss what she was proposing. She agreed and sent me her phone number. A day later, I called her mid-afternoon. She spent some time telling me about Debbie and her situation. I told her that, in general, I would trust her implicitly, but I was concerned that Debbie might be in a fragile state and could make a bad decision about joining us. Carla assured me that the two of them had talked at length about what would most likely happen and the Debbie was totally all for it.
To be honest, my head was swimming. I had never been in a threesome let alone with a "virgin" in the hobby. Carla talked me off the ledge and I agreed to proceed, but I wanted to meet both of them in the lobby bar to make sure everything was out in the open. I told Carla that I would respect any decision that Debbie made, including calling the whole thing off at the last minute. Carla thanked me for my understanding and compassion.
Finally, we settled on a night the following week for four hours, starting at about 7:00 p.m. when I would meet them in the hotel lobby bar. I told Carla that I'd hand her two envelopes with $800 in each one and asked her to take them to her car before rejoining Debbie and me in the bar. She agreed and the countdown had begun.
I debated whether to ask Carla some specifics about Debbie appearance, but decided it would be more fun to be surprised.
Time proceeded at a snail's pace. What would Debbie look like? What would it be like to be with two women? Would I live to tell about it?
I boarded my plane to Cincinnati with plenty of anticipation, not to mention a stirring in my groin area.
I got to my hotel about 3:00 p.m. and began preparations for that evening's date. I ordered a couple of chilled bottles of a nice Chardonnay and a charcuterie board to be delivered at 6:30 p.m. I tried to take a nap, but it was fruitless.
The wine and snacks were delivered right on time. I headed to the shower to get cleaned up and shave both my face and cock. Gotta be clean for the ladies!
I got down to the bar about 6:50 p.m. and found that it was pretty deserted. Maybe half a dozen people. Carla knew what I looked like, so I found a booth near the back of the lounge area and waited.
All of a sudden, I began to have doubts about this being a good idea. Obviously, I didn't know Debbie. Were we pushing her to do something that she would later regret? Should I have spent more time talking to Carla about the whole idea? Was I being a dirty old man who was selfishly considering my own sexual gratification? Because of these doubts, I decided to spend some time with the ladies in the bar telling them of my doubts.
Not surprisingly, at precisely 7:00 p.m. two lovely women walked into the bar and Carla spotted me immediately. She waved and both of them headed my way. Carla is in her mid to upper 40s, about 5-2, and has wonderfully large breasts. She looked great and it was thrilling to see her again. Next to her was Debbie, obviously. Debbie is older, maybe mid to upper 50s. She's significantly taller than Carla, probably 5-9 or so and fairly slim. She has short gray hair and is quite lovely in a lady-next-door way. Not stunningly beautiful, but what I call sneaky pretty. She was wearing a conservative dress with a sweater over her shoulders. I couldn't really tell anything about her breast size, but I didn't care.
I stood up as the women made their way to my table. I gave Carla a big hug. She introduced me to Debbie and we had a bit more reserved hug befitting the fact that we'd just met.
I welcomed both of them and told Debbie that I was very pleased to meet her. I also told her that she was lucky to have a friend like Carla. Debbie said, "Indeed, I am."
I asked if Chardonnay was OK. They both agreed, so I ordered two more glasses.
After we got comfortable in the booth, I told that ladies about my concerns. I specifically addressed Debbie telling her that Carla and I had done this kind of thing before, but that I wanted to make sure that she was completely on board. I wanted to make sure that Carla and I had no hidden agenda and that we were there to proceed with an evening of sex between three consenting adults. I think I kind of caught Carla off guard with this admission. She looked at me and then over at Debbie. Debbie said, "I understand your concern and I really appreciate your thoughtfulness. I guess you'd call this a new frontier for me, but I'm 100% on board. I might need some support as things progress, but I really believe that you and Carla want what's best for me and, of course, for all three of us."
It was a beautiful moment. It was like no other encounter I had ever had and I was truly touched.
I said, "OK, Debbie, let's take the next step." I wanted to break the ice, but not to be too forward about the rest of the evening. I slid the two envelopes across the table. Maybe it's paranoia on my part, but for the past few years, I've done this with my dates. If the cops come bursting into my room later on, we're just friends having fun. Nothing illegal.
In a couple of minutes, our wine had arrived at the table. We toasted a fun evening among friends. Carla quietly got up and headed to her car with the envelopes.
I looked at Debbie. I said, "Debbie, I should have said this when we first met, but I want to express my condolences over your loss. I know it's tough, but don't be afraid to ask Carla for help, not only tonight, but going forward. It's clear that she's a good friend. I know she would do anything for you. I've only met here one time before, but I consider her to be a wonderful woman with a heart of gold. Also, I've never been married, so I can't imagine what your loss means. "
Debbie's chin quivered a bit. She thanked me for my advice and assured me that she would lean on Debbie going forward."
Then, I said, "I know this is your first time doing this. I promise that I will respect your wishes in every way. Neither one of us wants to pressure you into doing anything that you don't want to do. You are not here to take care of my wants. If you get uncomfortable at any point, you just have to tell me and I'll stop."
She looked down and said, "Thank you. I appreciate your words. I'm anxious, but not afraid. Carla has told me everything about you and how you treated her."
"Everything?"
"Well, I think so. She also mentioned that you didn't use condoms."