"You want me to do what?" I asked in disbelief.
"You said it yourself; we need to do something to spice things up in our marriage. I think having sex with others will do that," my husband Doug said.
That was how it started. Let me introduce myself before I go farther. My name is Kari, I'm thirty-nine years old having been married to Doug for nineteen years. We have a son, David, who is also nineteen and in college. Yes, your calculations are correct. Doug knocked me up when I was nineteen. Right after my twentieth birthday I got married and then three months later I was gave birth to David.
I'm 5' 7" and what some would call a full figure girl or curvy. I've always had thick legs and now a little more ass than I want, but my full breasts have always gotten boys to turn their heads. I've always stayed in shape playing tennis and working out but still just a little thick.
Doug is just about 5' 10" about 170 pounds; fit but not skinny. He had just started with an engineering firm after getting his degree in engineering. We were set up on a blind date by a co-worker of his. We were both infatuated with each other from the first date.
I was a virgin when I started dating Doug. I held out for a month till I let him in my pants and then another week before he took my virginity. My parents, mostly my mom, had taught me that sex was dirty and just something that a wife did. I would have agreed with her after my first time which re-enforced what she had told me that sex hurts. The second time changed my mind. It didn't hurt to have his penis inside me, it actually felt good. The problem was that we were not smart about protection and on our first or second time having sex his seed found my egg.
Our sex life after the baby came along was not bad, I just never felt I could satisfy Doug. He would often ask me to suck his dick, which I did occasionally but never long enough for him. I never let him come in my mouth because I thought that was dirty. I did try different positions but Doug really only liked being on top or me being on top. We tried doggie a few times but he didn't care for it, he said.
A few years ago Doug verbalized his frustration with our sex life. At first, I was hurt but then got nervous that Doug might cheat on me. After some thought I told Doug that I would try whatever he wanted. We tried different ideas with varying success. I bought sexy lingerie and shaved my pubic area. The thing that seemed to get Doug off the most was role playing. Doug especially liked to have me play one of our friends and he would be fucking her. He also liked me to pretend he was someone else fucking me.
At first the idea had no appeal to me but I played along. I started to get intrigued with what another man would be like. I had never seen another man naked much less felt another hard dick. It felt dirty to me but exciting.
Our efforts only lasted a short time till we went back to our old ways of boring sex, till now.
"Come on Kari, I just suggested we try out what we have been role playing," Doug said.
My husband had just told me that he wanted to have sex with another woman and he wanted me to have sex with another man. He called it wife swapping and I snapped at him that it was cheating.
Our discussion turned ugly with me storming off. I stewed for two days before I talked to him again. "So what are you actually talking about?" I asked
"It would be something to spice up our sex life. I read some articles that swapping can really enhance a couples sex life. I've found some of web sites where we could find a couple to meet. If we like them we would have sex. No strings, just sex," Doug said.
We discussed his plan for over an hour and all I could think of was my Doug cheating on me if I said no. I ended up not saying yes but not saying no either. I gave him permission to find a couple and we would meet.
Two weeks later Doug announced that he had found a couple to meet and set up dinner with them. Doug showed me their profile, Jim and Rachel. They were close to our age Jim was forty-four and Rachel was thirty-seven. The pictures on their profile were fully clothed but they both looked sexy. I was actually a little jealous of Rachel. She was thin and blonde, two things I am not. Their profile stated that they were new to swinging, starting in the last year.
The meeting was planned for Applebee's; I figured that would be a safe non-sexy atmosphere. Jim and Rachel were already seated when we got there. I was shocked how normal they were. I guess I expected something completely different. Jim was taller that I had pictured, looking distinguished with a little grey in his hair. I was pleased to see they were just as nervous as we were.
Dinner went so much better than I expected. Rachel was very outgoing but not in an obnoxious way. Jim was quiet but seemed very sensitive. It was an hour into dinner before the conversation took a sexual turn and that was the result of my question. I asked them how they started swinging. They told us that their sex life was getting stale and Rachel suggested they try swapping. They both said it has been the best thing for their sex life.
The plan had been for us to have dinner then each couple would go home and discuss if we would meet again. That way no pressure if either couple didn't want to go farther. I wasn't sure I could actually swap but I did like Jim and Rachel.
We ended the dinner walking out to our cars together. Rachel and I hugged first while the guys shook hands. Jim hugged me tightly while I watched Doug and Rachel hug with Rachel whispering something in his ear.
In the car Doug asked me what I thought. I told him that I liked them but still wasn't sure I could have sex with them. "What did Rachel whisper in your ear?" I asked.
"She said she hoped they made a good impression because she was very excited to swap with us," Doug said.
