The facts are that many wives have already thought about having sex with other men without their husband's knowledge. It is a natural inclination that most can repress, but statistics show that her dream of entering into a shared lifestyle may already have begun. Unfortunately, when it's done in secret, it builds walls in the relationship rather than a more intimate bond. Further, most normal heterosexual married men have thought about watching their wife with another man at one time, even if they say they wouldn't and would never act on this fantasy. The difference between them and me is that I have allowed my wife to act on her impulses. The best way to establish a complicit open-marriage relationship is to be open about your interest. If you don't try to pressure or enforce the idea, it will likely begin to work on her and she will gradually become excited by the prospect without your coaching. The key is for her to realize that her activity would not necessarily include you having sex with other women, unless you agree to a swinging arrangement rather than a wife sharing one. Wife sharing is about your interest in "her needs"! You will know the process has begun when she starts to ask you all sorts of questions as to how this open marriage would function, or why you find it exciting watching her have sex with other men. Depending on her upbringing, it may take hours or years for her to brave asking you these questions. Be assured she will be thinking about them in any event, even if she would never act these fantasies out.
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This is a true story about Donna. It happened in 1993. Donna was 23 and I was 25. Donna and I had been married less then three years. As with many young couples, there was never enough money to last the week. Donna decided to look for a job around Killeen, Texas, my last duty station before my ETS. Looking through the job section of the paper was rather depressing because the area is small, but the population large because of Ft. Hood. The exception was the need for young good looking women to work in massage parlors in Killeen. Donna laughed and said maybe she should try it. I was not surprised to feel my cock jump with excitement at the thought. She was surprised by my reaction, and after some discussion, she agreed to apply at one not far from our apartment the next morning. We fucked and sucked the night away anticipating the next day.
Donna got up early and picked out a sexy outfit of a mini skirt and a halter top. She looked great! Donna was 5β² 3β³ (122 lb.), 36/23/35, with long blond hair. I wished her luck and kissed her good-bye a little before 9:00 a.m. that morning. The phone rang at 9:35 a.m. and Donna said the manager would have her working on a trial basis pending a complete interview with the owner later that afternoon. Until that interview, she would work with another girl learning how things worked. The girl who was giving Donna the rundown on how things worked was named Gina. Gina told Donna that no special skills were required, and explained how she should massage a customer. Getting it perfect was not important, as most customers were really not there for the massage. Gina then explained that most men wanted what she referred to as "extras". Sexual favors for a tip. What extras Donna was willing to perform, and what she charged for them was up to her with a few exceptions. She was told not to fuck any walk in customers.
Hand jobs and blow jobs were what must guys wanted and they were allowed. Gina told Donna she would learn more during her interview with Tom, the owner. Gina also took Donna on a tour of the place. After entering the front door, there was a counter and a few chairs. Behind the counter was a lobby area with a couch and some lounge chairs. This was where the girls sat while waiting for a customer to enter. To the back side of this room was a hallway, which was separated by another door halfway towards the back. The first hallway had two doors on either side. These were the massage rooms. Each room contained a massage table, clothes racks and shelves with towels and various other items used while servicing the customer. Each room also had a glass enclosed shower stall. The back portion of the hall contained one room on each side. One was the office with a desk, chairs and a couch. The other was a complete bedroom with all the trimmings. Gina said the room was for special clients, but did not elaborate.
With the tour over, Donna and Gina returned to the lobby and sat on the couch. The manager, Bob, whom she had first talked to about the job, then left for some business. This left Donna, Gina and Earl. Earl was the cashier/security guard. Gina explained that Earl was there to protect them from any crazies that might happen to come in. Earl was an imposing figure. He was muscular and stood 6β² 2β³ with a well developed body. Donna was glad he was there. After sitting and talking for a short while, a customer came in and Gina took him to a room. As Donna talked with Earl, a good looking man in his mid -twenties came in. He talked with Earl a few minutes and then Earl came over to Donna and quietly asked her if she was ready. He also told her that if she wasn't, he would have the guy wait for Sharon, another girl who was due in any minute. Earl told her that the guy wanted a half hour switch. A switch was a massage type where Donna would undress to her panties and the customer would massage her for fifteen minutes, and then she would do him for the same.
Donna was nervous but decided to jump right in. Donna escorted the man to a room, and once in the room, they both removed their clothes. Donna's nervousness was somewhat relieved by how nervous the guy was. He told her his name was John and this was his first trip to a massage parlor. After some more small talk, John decided he would massage Donna first. Donna lay on the table on her back and John went right to her tits and rubbed them and her stomach gently. Donna could not help noticing his cock standing at attention and brushing her arm as he rubbed and stroked her tits. His cock was about 7 inches and very thick. As he continued, his hand wandered down and Donna opened her legs slightly so he could rub the insides of her thighs. Occasionally he would move his hands up and slide right over her thong covered pussy. After a few minutes of this, John asked if there were other things they could do. Donna asked what he had in mind. John stumbled with the words and asked if he could eat her pussy.
Donna told him that was not allowed, but if there was something else! John then asked for a blow job. Donna agreed, but told him it would cost him $40.00 extra. John agreed and went to his pants and got out his checkbook. Donna then told him she could not accept a check. John reached into his pockets and pulled out all of his cash, which turned out to be $28.00. It wasn't the right amount, but by this time Donna was so excited, she told me she would have done it for free! Donna took the money and John lay on the table. Donna's description of the scene was incredible. Here was this stranger lying naked on a table in front of her waiting for her to take his cock in her mouth. His cock was twitching and the head was covered with pre-cum. Donna's pussy was dripping her own juice and saturating her thong. Donna moved over beside him and her hand stoked his cock as she dipped her head to it. She raised his cock to a straight up position so he could watch as she started her work.
Her tongue immediately went to work on the head licking off all of the creamy clear pre-cum. She said she felt her body quiver and had an orgasm. For the next few minutes, she worked her tongue and lips over his entire shaft and balls. John was moaning and his hand was rubbing her exposed ass. He moved his hand to her crotch and wiggled his finger inside the elastic of her thong. Once inside, he found her hole and began fingering her gently. Donna couldn't wait any longer and her mouth opened and took his cock inside. His cock was so thick it filled her mouth completely. Her lips slid up and down as her tongue lapped at the underside of his cock head. Within a few minutes, John was moaning and Donna could tell he was ready to dump his load. She slowed her mouth motion to intensify his pleasure and tilted her head to his stomach in preparation. John could hold out no longer and his cock exploded in her waiting mouth. It took all she could do to keep up with the flow. His creamy cum filled her mouth as quick as she could swallow.
She pulled her head back so that just his throbbing cock head was in her mouth and used her lips to milk out his stream. Donna continued to suck on the head for another few minutes, to insure she didn't miss any of his load before removing his cock from her mouth. She wiped his cock off with a warm wash cloth and then dried him with a towel. His cock was rock hard again by the time she finished, but unfortunately his half hour was up five minutes earlier. They dressed and he thanked her for the best blow job he had ever had. She said he was just an 18 year old private from the base and he said he would be back. When she returned to the lobby, Gina and Sharon were sitting on the couch talking. Sharon (32 years) introduced herself and asked how her first customer went. The girls sat there talking for awhile and Sharon explained that her husband was a career sergeant at the base and this was her way of making extra money for her family.