This was the moment I was waiting for. I had begged for it for months. At the moment of truth my heart was beating loudly and I was shaking. Maybe when we got through the door I would calm down.
We were on 49th street in Manhattan about to enter a building where the party was being held. We prepared for weeks for this, deciding how to dress, how to look, and most importantly what our limits were.
I love my wife for agreeing to try this, if only once. She is fantastic.
We were greeted at the door by a middle-aged woman who took our names. She told us where to hang our coats. Then she told us where the bathrooms were, the food, and the main dance area.
I looked over at Janine. She looked great! She had on a red dress which we bought for the occasion. It was complemented by black shoes, stockings, and a belt.
Her hair was done today and she was ravishing looking. She is 50 years old but looks like she is in her 30's. And she is young at heart.
The woman left us and gestured for us to enter the main lounge area. We entered and went to a room that had about 20 people mulling about. The music was soft but we could hear louder dance music in the next room.
We decided to keep to ourselves and just check out the scene for a while.
How did we get to this point? I had long told my wife about my fantasy of her getting picked up and even fucked by another man. In my fantasy she is receptive to it and enjoys it. I guess I like this fantasy because it shows her as a woman who enjoys sex for what it is. It also shows a woman who is confident in her self and what she wants. I also genuinely believe she would enjoy it.
Anyhow I had this in my head for a while and used it to enhance our love-making. I brought up the subject a lot but it went nowhere. I came to realize that she would never do it.
But I had another approach and had something in it for both of us. There are lots of swingers clubs and parties out there. Since we live near New York City there is abundance. Clubs come in various types. There are on-premise where people actually meet and have sex there. There are also off-premises where no sex occurs but people of like minds meet, get to know each other, and then make arrangements for meetings on their own.
I researched the off-site places and found that they are all similar. Basically couples only are allowed. The venue is basically a party atmosphere. There is a buffet and dance music. These places also have rules. The basic one is 'no' means 'no. No one can do anything without consent. This is an absolute. If you take away the sex aspect what you really have is a party. This is something we never get invited to anymore. But it is something Janine would like to do.
As for the sex aspect I proposed the following rules.
1)Naturally neither one of us would have sex with anyone.
2)If we felt uncomfortable we would leave.
3)We would try and enjoy ourselves.
For my part (and fantasy) she would agree to the following.
If anyone she liked came up to her and asked her to dance or cuddle or whatever she would be receptive to it. It would lead nowhere but give me a thrill, and hopefully her too.
I pled my case on this. I used everything I had to convince her. I told her she would get a night out, she would feel good, and she would laugh. Also I have a 50th birthday coming up and she could make my dream come true. She is my soul-mate. I expected the usual outbursts about what a sicko I am.
To my incredible surprise she said yes!
Once this was out of the way I had to do my research. Sure I had heard about these places and had some information, but this would be real now. So I spent weeks on the trusty internet to find a place that seemed acceptable and safe.
We made arrangements to stay overnight at the city for this event. Having set a date a month ahead we started our preparations. Mostly this meant clothing. We didn't' want to look out of place or out of style.
So back to tonight! After sitting there for about an hour a couple came and sat next to us on the sofa. They introduced themselves as Charlie and Lisa. Both were a little younger than us and very pleasant. We made small talk and found that they were basically a normal couple. They were married for 10 years and were into the 'scene' for about 2 years. We found out from them that this was singles night, which explained why there seemed to be a lot of unaccompanied males there.
After some small talk Janine asked them 'So what is this all about anyhow?' They smiled and said they would show us. With that they both got up. Charlie went to sit next to Janine and Lisa came close to me.