Saturday night, my husband's office had a "team building" event at one of the local campgrounds. The company rented out a large, ten plus bedroom cabin for the team members and their spouses (if they were married). The goal really was more about getting everyone together outside of work, enjoying time together in the outdoors, and letting loose a little bit.
When we got there, we were excited to see the cabin. Obviously it was huge, having that many bedrooms, spread over three levels. There was a huge kitchen, game room with video games, pool table, and a bar, fantastic two level deck, a hot tub, pool, and on and on.
As soon as the group was together, and introductions of all the spouses were made, my husband's boss, Dave, broke out the drinks. He brought with him a huge selection of liquors and mixers, and knew how to make a pretty long list of drinks using what he brought.
My husband has told me a lot about Dave, since that's who he reports to directly, and usually, it isn't too positive. Apparently Dave is more concerned with making himself look good than helping out his team. He is always putting down my husband and the others on the team to his supervisors, and for some reason views himself as God's gift to everyone.
Dave isn't entirely unattractive, standing around 6'3" or 6'4". He looks like he was once an athlete with a powerful build, though he also carries a little extra weight in the midsection like many former athletes do. His brown hair is gelled forward in a messy way that was popular maybe 10 years ago when he was likely in his prime, and he wears clothes that are a size too small and for someone in their 20s, not for him in his early 40s. He is loud and boisterous, and is always at the center of everything.
My husband has worked at the company for about 6 years now, and compared to Dave, tends to get lost in the shadow. He is around 5'10", 150 lbs, brown hair and eyes, and is genuinely the sweetest guy I know, which is what I love most about him.
Throughout the evening, Dave made sure everyone's drinks stayed full, he ordered in a large dinner, and we had a lot of fun playing games, sharing stories, and laughed a lot. Having really not met many of his coworkers before, I really enjoyed myself, and got way more drunk than I had planned. I did get a little uncomfortable at times because everytime Dave came around, he would drape his arm around my shoulders, and made suggestive comments to me and the other women, let his fingers linger on my hand each time he would hand me a drink, just lots of little things like that. My husband didn't seem too worried when I mentioned it to him, telling me "it's just how Dave is," but it was still a little uncomfortable.
To describe myself a little, I'm 5'4", 135 lbs, have light brown hair and blue eyes, have a little extra weight from having a couple kids, but my 34C breasts are still pretty firm and my legs and butt give me a decent hourglass shape. I try to stay in shape, and have done a decent job getting back to within around 10 lbs from pre-baby weight. For this event, I tried balancing fun and practical with what I wore, pairing black yoga pants, a long white sheer top that exposed a black halter top underneath, and a pair of low top, canvas style shoes. It seemed to work as a few of the other wives thought it was a cute outfit, and there were more than a couple guys letting their glances linger a little longer than they should have. It made me feel sexy, and proud that the other guys might be jealous of my husband.