"HI, Honey. I'm home," I called out.
"HI, I'm in here," my wife answered, calling from the bedroom.
As I climbed the stairs to our bedroom, I told her that it had been a tough week and that she should get dressed because I was taking her out to dinner.
"Oh, sorry Honey, but I have a date tonight."
I stopped dead in my tracks, speechless. What, a married woman on a date! And not just any married woman, but my wife! Then it came to me. This was because of something I said about 4 months ago.
Let me back up. A while ago, I had a very, very erotic dream. It was the first wet dream I had since I was a teenager. It was about my wife having sex with another man, a stranger. When I woke, I was stunned by the vivid images in my mind and more stunned that I was getting excited again, thinking of my wife having sex with another man.
I tried to put these thoughts out of my mind, got up, cleaned myself off, and went to work. I was a bit distressed. What kind of a man, what kind of a husband gets excited at the thought of his wife being unfaithful to him? I felt like a pervert and vowed to banish these thoughts. However they would come uninvited and the result was always the same, a hard on.
Then on one of my frequent business trips, I went to an adult book store and got some magazines packaged together. In the package was a magazine published in the U.K., called Fiesta. It had pictures of wives submitted by their husbands and a letters section like Penthouse magazine, except the letters mostly had a theme of wives having sex with men not their husbands and the husbands being excited by it. Some husbands even set it up and even took pictures. I found it very arousing and realized that I was not alone in this fetish.
After that I looked for this magazine and another with the same theme, called Knave. Reading them never failed to excite me. After awhile of mentally exploring these fantasies, I had to admit to myself that I wanted my wife to engage in these activities, to have sex with other men. But how could I possibly tell her? She would think I'm a pervert or worse. I thought this would have to be just a fantasy for me.
Then one night we had drinks and dinner, went home and had great sex. In the afterglow, I said, "That was great!"
My wife agreed and said with a chuckle that we should do it more often. I apologized for my frequent travel, my heavy work load, my being tired and distracted. Then without thinking, I told her that she should not be deprived because of my work and travel, that I would not consider it a violation of our marriage vows if she needed or wanted to have sex with another man. I would support her in any decision she made and would love her no matter what.
She replied in a kind of laughing tone, "oh, really?!" I told her I was serious. She was quiet for awhile and then leaned over, kissed me and said, "Let's go to sleep." So we did. Nothing more was said about it until the moment she told me she had a date, some four months after our conversation.
This was confusing. I did give her permission to be with other men, but thought it would be when I was unavailable if it even happened, which I thought it never would. However I had set no conditions to my permission. I did give her permission to have date (which would include sex) without any qualification. Now she had taken it.
I got moving again and went into the bedroom and found my wife in sexy, lacy panties and bra, garter belt, stockings, and heels, applying makeup. I noted that this was a lingerie set that I had bought for her in the hopes that she would wear it for me on a special occasion. I said, "You didn't tell me you had a date." I know this seems a stupid thing to say to your wife in this circumstance but I was still reeling from her announcement. She told me that she had just made it within the last hour.
Not knowing what else to say, I asked where she met him.
"Well, I haven't yet. I've just corresponded with him on the internet."
Wow! I was surprised. I asked where he was taking her. As I did, she put on a long translucent or really transparent robe, which again surprised me. I thought she would put on a dress.
"Oh, we're not going anywhere. He's here in town for the first time and wanted me to give him a warm welcome before he has to run off to meet a business associate. So he's just going to come over here for a sex date, as he says."