"How many times do I need to repeat myself? It's this coming weekend. We're driving there on Friday, and returning Sunday. Got it?"
"Yes dear."
"And try to be nice. Sherie is my best friend. And she's always been there for me, even when you weren't."
Need I say more? I'm not looking forward to going out of state, and perhaps particularly to be with the few friends we have who know all about my indiscretion(s). Thankfully, at least they're still friends, despite always siding with Jen, knowing what she's 'endured' from me.
"And btw, Sherie says they're not changing their menu, so you'll just have to learn to like coffee. Black coffee in particular. You know how Sherie feels about having sugar in the house. Or fat products like cream. So buck up, Bucko."
Can you imagine living with a constant tone in the house like this for a lifetime? I'm not making excuses for myself, but I suspect few guys would put up with it, and many might even seek love elsewhere. I digress.
Years ago, Sherie & Rick had lived next door to us. So they knew pretty much everything, and even had a few skirmishes of their own with Jen, but weathered them better than I did.
I mean, I love her; don't get me wrong. And I always have. But at the infamous mid-life point guys can be particularly susceptible to expecting more. And suddenly grass may appear much greener than it truly is. Again, I digress. But this to say, I failed. And I am trying to make up for lost time and be a better husband, albeit still experiencing some of the household 'tone' that I found untenable.
Anyway, maybe Sherie doesn't find Jen quite so abrasive in the same ways I do. Or maybe Sherie's a bit on the assertive side herself. Case in point, the coffee comment today. Sherie can shoot straight from the shoulder, as much as any marksman.
And I never know whether she's for real, or being a bit assertive in a flirting sort of way, or whether she's goading Jen to push me harder yet -- especially knowing of my failing.
At times, I almost feel like Sherie thinks I owe her some form of payback as well as my wife.
Or is that just a fantasy of mine that Sherie's slightly jealous too, like I cheated on her as well? Women are *hard* to figure out. One minute I think they're flirting, and the next minute, they embarrass you with a quick girly uppercut that drops you to the mat, dazed.
One unforgettable example comes to mind: On more than one occasion, Sherie drove from the back seat anytime we went out together as couples. Often, I thought she was toying with me. Slow down. Turn here. Where's the fire? " Jen, don't you know how to get him to drive as he ought? Girl, you need to give him some 'driving' lessons."
