Unspoken Agreement: Wife Refusing to Let Herself be shared, but willing to tease
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Unlike a lot of the stories I read about wife sharing, I've never officially tried it in my marriage. Since it's my obsession, of course I've brought it up during sex, hoping that she'd be willing to experiment. No luck. My wife is insanely beautiful. She's in her 40's with a great body. Everyone in our social circle, both men and women, comment on how attractive they find her. It helps that she's also rather "upscale," dressing up a lot and driving a nice Mercedes.
Though she's a very sexy brunette, by her own admission she's rather shy. When I met her she was actually wild, but we both had to stop drinking, since we had a problem with alcohol. Needless to say it's been tough letting go when we live in reality most of the time. While sex has gotten much better, she won't even let me discuss a fantasy like sharing her with another.
I know this might sound pathetic, but strangely her boundaries have made things incredibly erotic between us. I've come to discover we have a kind of unspoken agreement with her knowing what I want but refusing to outright acknowledge it. She strategically teases me in ways that torture me with desire. Like she'll wear a really nice skirt or summer dress. When I'm with a guy friend, or even if we're around a male stranger, she'll lift her leg up to adjust the strap of her shoe, making sure that me and the other guy can see her panties. She pretends not to notice, and it almost seems like she doesn't, but then I can catch her taking a quick glace to make sure she's being looked at.
Honestly it sucks not to have more sex. We do it at best maybe twice or three times a month, but around these little "incidents," the sex turns really hot. It's like she tempts me into ravishing her with crazed desire. Of course I wish she'd go much, much further with the flirtation. She won't even dance with other guys at weddings like I read about in a lot of these erotic stories, forcing me to imagine more than what's really going on. But when I think about it, maybe her denial makes the little things she does that much hotter.
Fortunately, even though she's not really open sexually, she's not that conservative in how she dresses. Even so, she's also not that over the top "sexed up." Her classy, upscale look does it for me, and she uses that to keep me, and lots of other guys, checking her out. She has a thin, European chic body, with a tone legs, a great ass, and small but shapely breasts. My favorite thing about how she dresses are these blouses cut low enough to show a little cleavage. If we're going out, sometimes she'll unbutton that extra button. The lacey "half-cup" bras she wears tend to just barely cover her breasts, so when she bends over guys get a good view, sometimes even of her nipples when the bra hangs just a little too loosely. Once after she got a waiter to look, again pretending she's oblivious, I had to go to the men's room and jerk off. It's that hot.
The best teasing moment of our sex life happened last year on a family trip to Florida. It's been so erotic for me that I thought I'd write it out, just to relive it the best I could. We had travelled throughout much of the state, and since we shared one hotel room wherever we stopped, understandably there was no sex for almost two weeks. Our last stop was Miami, at a really upscale hotel with two bedrooms, so the kids could sleep in their own room and even have their own TV. This set up itself turned me on with the possibility of our getting it on. Unfortunately, the first night there she was so tired, nothing happened.
Then the next day, we set up towels and chairs at the beach. There were lots of young, attractive women there, but honestly I was much more into my wife in her swimming suit. Twenty years together and I'm still checking out her ass while she walks to the water. I should consider myself lucky. While we were on the beach, unbeknownst to me she was getting really upset. I asked her why, and she accused me of checking out this young woman in a bikini sitting rather near us. I had vaguely noticed her, but she thought otherwise. That woman really was trying to get everyone's attention—by rubbing oil on her very exposed body and kind of "posing" when she stood up—so much so that when I did look, it became a real off. She way trying too hard. I denied looking, but my wife was still jealous.
Later that evening I figured things had blown over, since she was joking around as we got ready for dinner. When she was blow drying her hair in her black underwear—yet another one of the things she does to keep my attention—she made some comment like she knows she's not as young as that woman on the beach but thinks she still has something. Of course I assured her she looked amazing. She rolled her eyes like she didn't care what I thought.