As a high school teen, I experienced several threesome experiences with two women and never found them to be particularly satisfying even though I had fantasized about "being ravished" by multiple females from puberty on.
My life changed when, in my thirties, I came home from work early and caught my wife in bed with another guy. I was shocked and angered. I went and got my shotgun from a closet and burst into the bedroom where they were rather actively engaged. I had two problems however.
Intellectually, I knew I did not want to spend my life in jail; nor did I want to lose my wife. Emotionally, while I felt betrayed, I was also terribly aroused.
I put the gun down and told my wife I needed to talk. I explained my very complex, confused emotions, and told her it was the betrayal that hurt, not the sex. I then completely surprised her when I asked her what she thought about two men at once. While hesitant, she agreed. Her lover too was hesitant and a bit wilted having focused like a laser on my shotgun. I don't know if he was aroused by the idea or scared of what might happen if he said no. Ultimately, he agreed. The experience was awkward, fun, arousing, silly, and many other things. Great sex it was not -- but it definitely held promise. We agreed it was interesting and fun but were not certain we wanted to continue. The other guy was not particularly enthused by the whole scene and soon made himself scarce.
We went about our lives, struggling through a marriage in which we had married too young, for all the wrong reasons, and into which we brought children far too soon. But as much strife as we had, we truly loved each other.
It was several years before we had our second experience. Now in our mid thirties, we had moved due to financial necessity. Our neighbor was a single father of two boys, about ten years our senior, and as we became closer and closer, I began to see changes in my wife's behavior -- things I had noticed once before -- just before I had caught her in bed. I won't bore you with details, but I became convinced she either wanted or was having an affair with our neighbor. I began to plot and scheme about how I was going to catch them. I would not be a cuckold.
I'm not sure who was more surprised when it finally happened, me or her. After secretly monitoring her activities, I was convinced she had planned a tryst one particular day. I worked at the time nearly 90 miles away and she knew that once gone to work, I was not likely to appear any time soon. What she did not plan for was that I would leave as though going to work, and hide out nearby, only to return well before expected. I found a place for breakfast and after an appropriate 90 minute wait, called the house, ostensibly to ask some inane question, while in reality setting the stage for my unexpectedly early return. I told her I was at work; I bitched about the terrible traffic; and complained about idiot drivers I had contended with. I figured she would now be at ease. I waited a bit over 30 minutes and figured the time had come.
I parked around the corner and snuck through a neighbor's yard toward my house. When I got to the side of the house, I could hear muffled talking, laughing, and giggling coming from the downstairs spare bedroom. Yet, I was confused when I looked into the driveways of my and my next-door neighbors homes and did not see my neighbor's car as I was sure I would. I tried to glance through the window but the curtain was pulled tightly. When I tried to enter the back/basement door, which I had left unlocked, I found it locked and chained.
Unable to contain myself, I marched to the front door. Fearing I would find that too chained, I was shocked to find it both unlocked and unchained. My thoughts reeled -- anger, confusion, uncertainty and curiosity warred for supremacy. Finally, I could contain myself no more and barged into the house and stalked down the half flight of stairs into the basement.