My husband Warren and I had been married for five years when I started to get bored. Before I married him, I had been a wild child party girl, going out nearly every night and doing exactly as I pleased with anyone I pleased. I fell in love with my husband after meeting him in a park, on a rare day when I wasn't partying. For some reason, being with him made me want to start over again. For him, I became more sedate and gave up my lifestyle in exchange for commitment and monogamy. We dated for a year and a half before he proposed to me and I said yes despite my reservations about the institution of marriage. I was just so head over heels in love with this man that it seemed the only right choice to make. And for five years, I managed to keep up the faΓ§ade of being his sedate and dutiful wife, because I knew that's part of why he fell in love with me.
But it wasn't working for me anymore. I still loved my husband and didn't want to leave him but I was getting so antsy sleeping with him and only him that it was starting to drive me crazy.
Don't get me wrong. Our sex life was fantastic. My husband was well hung with a penis that seemed to grow hard within seconds of a seductive glance from me. I loved nothing better than surprising him with blowjobs. He never knew when they were coming β on a weekday while I was folding laundry, at a box seat in the opera, or even at his parents' house for their weekly Sunday brunches. There was nothing I liked more than wrapping my lips around my husband's hard cock and taking it deep into my throat. Years of practice with other men had made me an expert in how to handle a man, and I never failed to bring my husband earth-shattering climaxes that he had trouble keeping quiet. Yet no matter where we were, he never denied me the pleasure of sucking him off. He couldn't say no, whether we were dining with his boss at a fancy restaurant or camping in the woods. I even gave him blowjobs at church from time to time.
But there are only so many things two people can reasonably do together, and after five years of doing them, I was ready to really mix it up.
I said as much to my girlfriend Lena when we were shopping one day. She was complaining about her sex life, and how her husband was addicted to oral sex. "I hate doing it," she confessed to me as we tried on hats. "I hate swallowing cum and I hate gagging. My husband is so big that he really makes me uncomfortable. But when I don't do it, he gets huffy and threatens to cheat on me. I just don't know what to do."