My wife and I had been married for almost 20 years. Last September while I was away from home for the weekend of paintball my wife lied to me and took a guy, along with another couple, up to our trailer. The sleeping arrangement was such that there was enough beds for the guy to sleep in his own bed but apparently he slept in the bed with my wife, a fact that she kept from me until I questioned her at length about the weekend. When she finally confessed that he had slept in our bed, I was very angry, betrayed and strangely turned on.
She maintained that it was all innocent and that no sex had taken place, but I couldn't believe that. I just kept picturing her fucking this dude and it was driving me crazy.
I loved her very much but we had drifted apart for awhile and this seemed to be the next logical step towards the demise of our marriage.
In a rage I signed up for every online dating option there was and found several responses to be very inviting, including one from a gay man who informed me that he could "make me forget about that whore".
I have to explain that I was taken advantage of by an older man when I was 11 years old, and that event caused me to really worry that I was gay when I was younger. I didn't like to jerk off as I somehow associated that with being gay. This fact caused me some difficulty as I would get frustrated when I was horny. If I couldn't find a release I would tend to get rather moody, a trait that was not helping me get laid.
We decided to try and save our marriage by going to counselling. It helped me to deal with my anger, to get to a place where I was feeling more in control. By the end of our sessions, we were talking more openly about our sex lives and my wife started to understand that I had some real hang ups around my sexuality. We talked about this and I confessed that I would like to share a male partner with her sometime.
We fantasized with our vibrator, even giving 'him' the name Mr. Purple. We would tell each how we liked to see him in our mouths. I would describe how he was fucking her as she sucked on my cock. It was fun but still all fantasy.
I'm kind of a detail oriented guy, so I started asking the wife what she fantasized Purple looked like? She was evasive but finally admitted that she thought he was a younger guy with long hair.
Over the Christmas holidays I mulled this over in my head. It would take some searching but there must be some bisexual long haired guy in his twenties who wanted to have this middle aged couple do him? Far fetched but I assumed that it couldn't hurt to look on CL.
I put up a posting similar to this;
"Mid 40s couple, married looking for a young, long haired, bisexual male to join us for safe sex. Discretion assured Ddf only please"
A week or more passed without a serious reply until I got a response from Billy.
"Hi, I'm Billy. I'm 21 years old, bi and Ddf. I have thought about your ad for a few days now and I'm thinking its really hot to be with an older couple. I'm a little overweight but I have long hair and I love to give oral. Please reply if you are interested."
I shared the response with my wife. She looked at me after reading my post and Billy's response.
"Are you certain this is what you want?"
"No, but I suppose there is only one way I am ever going to figure this out." I replied.
I replied to Billy that we were indeed very interested in meeting him. After exchanging a few emails, I gave him my cell number and we texted to figure out the last of the details.
I picked my wife up from work on that Saturday evening and we drove just to the outskirts of the city to the address Billy had provided. His parents were apparently away at a wedding for the weekend so he had invited us out to his place to get to know him better.
On the drive out we were both nervous and quiet. Occasionally we would eye each other, looking for some sign that we should back out.
"If we are not comfortable, nothing will happen. You or I, just have to say the word and that's it." I reassured her.
We arrived at the address provided to us, it was a respectable house on a quiet tree-lined street.
After ringing the doorbell, a young man quickly opened the door. He seemed very eager and friendly. He invited us in and offered us a beer.
We settled in the family room and got to know one another a little better.
Billy was about 5'10", thick brown curly hair which was shoulder length.
He apologized for having cut his hair recently explaining he was interviewing for jobs.
He was a few pounds over weight for his height but he carried it well and it complimented his round face. I thought to myself that he probably drank too much beer, as he quickly polished off his beverage and asked us if we were ready for another yet.
Both Michelle and I politely refused as we had barely touched our first bottle yet.
As Billy was out in the kitchen grabbing a fresh beer, we discussed how we were feeling nervous and I was afraid she was going to chicken out.
So when Billy returned I knew I had to take control of the situation.
Billy returned and was about to settle in his original seat, an overstuffed chair opposite to the couch we were sitting on. I stopped him before he sat down and asked if he would like to join us on the couch. He stopped and took a swig of beer and shyly looked at Michelle to gauge her reaction. To which she smiled, winked and patted the cushion next to her. I stepped aside and allowed him enough room to access the couch and take a seat beside my wife.
Billy sat as he giggled nervously. I took the beer from his hands and set it down on the coffee table in front of us.
"Take off your shirt please." I quietly requested.
He hesitated and kind of gave me a blank stare, but then he began to pull his t-shirt up without any verbal protest. Michelle helped him pull it over his head and he kept the shirt in his lap.