That's what I heard my wife Kerry say to me one night and that is how it started. My journey into what has become my liberation, oblivion, destruction and re-birth.
Kerry and I had been married about twelve years at that time and "I've been thinking about making love to a woman." this new found desire was news to me. While not being a prude, Kerry had never exhibited a wild streak. I was the only man she had ever made love to. She could be flirty with other men as I could with women, but neither of us had ever strayed.
I said in reply, "Are you sure,"". This came out in a whisper, only after I had gained my calm.
"Well yes, it's been a secret desire of mine for some time now. I've always been curious as to what it would feel like and it's killing me. I want to feel it. What do you think Jack?"
"I think it's a great idea, but what do you propose? Will I be involved? Can I at least watch?"
And with that the floodgates opened and our marriage attained a new level of openness as we shared our fantasies and how to go about making them reality.
This was about twelve years ago and pre-internet so we placed an ad in a local city alternative newspaper. Two weeks later we were sifting through numerous replies. One thing we noticed was that even though we had asked for a single woman, a few single men with obvious comprehension disabilities answered the ad, but we also received many responses from couples. We threw out the single men and none of the single women enticed us, but couples were something we hadn't discussed. The theme of most of the couple's responses was that they had read our ad and were counseling us as to how tough it is to get a female. We picked out two of the couples and decided to contact them.