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The Introvert And The Extrovert

The Introvert And The Extrovert

by erossir
18 min read
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A short to the point little drama about a man, a wife, and life. Nothing earth-shattering but certainly life changing. No blatant sex, no BTB or RAAC.

I also left this one open-ended. I do hope some of you with more talent that me will take this brief story and expand it. I think there are many possibilities. I do ask a few things. Please credit me somewhere. If you can, put a link to the original. I don't insist on it, but it would be nice if you drop me a message with a link to your ending. I would love to read them.

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I am a non-social beast. I admit it, and I enjoy it. Don't take me wrong. I can be as social as the next guy. I can go to a party or social event, mingle, converse, be entertaining. But that sort of behavior comes at a cost for me. The cost is purely personal. For every hour I spend being sociable, I need two hours to recoup and recharge. Being personable with large groups of people is tiring for me. It leaves me emotionally and physically drained. I hate it.

My wife of 12 years, on the other hand, is my polar opposite. We married young. She was 19 and I was 20. Probably not the smartest choice, but we were, are, in love. She revels in that sort of interaction. She craves it, actually needs it. If she had to stay anywhere for more than a few hours without someone else to talk to, I think she would go mad. Put her in a room with 2 dozen other people, and eventually, she will know all their names and half their life history. She eats that sort of thing up.

The usual results of our social excursions are almost always the same. We get home and I am a physical wreck. I am physically tired and emotionally drained. I typically want to take a shower, have one last drink, and go to bed. My wife comes back from these things charged up, happy, and, sometimes, sexually ramped up. That has led to some incredible sex. Lately, it has led to some unholy fights.

We do go out and socialize. I do it to keep her happy. You know the old drill. A happy wife is a happy life. It has worked for 12 years. Why mess with something that is working. But lately, I have noticed it isn't working as well. The last few times we have gone out, I have noticed a few changes. In the past, I would spend a bit of time with her, doing the social thing, and then find a quiet place near the bar where I could sit and watch the activities. People are entertainments for me. I watch them and am amazed at what people will do and how they change when they become a little inebriated and have an audience.

The last few times we have gone to one of these human sideshows, there has been a difference. I noticed it a few parties ago. When we arrived, Nina, my wife, suggested I should just go find a place to sit. She made it clear that I needn't accompany here on her early rounds through the party. I thought it was a marvelous idea, so I hit the bar and found a chair nearby that afforded me a view of the activities.

Nina scored a glass of white wine, her preferred party drink, and was soon as happy as a clam at high tide moving among the other partiers, laughing, chatting, and enjoying herself. I was as good as I was going to get with a comfortable chair, a glass of scotch, and some good entertainment already cueing itself up. I was particularly enjoying the antics of Simon Plowers. Simon was one of our social group and was a fixture at the parties we attended.

Simon was about our age and thought himself a wit. Unfortunately, the more he drank, the closer he came to being only half right. He was already in good form and making an absolute ass of himself to a small group near the buffet table. His favorite party pastime was to repeat his latest collection of dirty jokes. Most of them were so old they had mold on them, and most of the people he cornered put on a weak smile and did their best to fade into the woodwork.

The party lasted until well after one AM. Several times during the night, Nina would float by where I was sitting, ask if I was doing ok, and, after a kiss, float off again. I resumed my usual occupation of watching other people make asses of themselves. Finally, Nina came back by, took my by the hand and announced it was time to go home.

We called a cab to take us home. We never drive to these events. Years ago we agreed it's just not safe for us to drive since we both like to drink. As usual, on the ride home, she talked non-stop, giving me an almost blow-by-blow recital of her activities during the party, who she met, who she talked to, and any other tidbits that she found interesting. I was, as usual, quiet. I was tired, but I listened and responded appropriately to her narrative.

Once we were home, I headed upstairs toward the shower. Nina followed me, continuing to chatter. I knew she was wired. When she began to undress, I noticed something different. Her nipples were hard and distended. That was a sure sign she was aroused and sexually excited. Before I could get in the shower, Nina was on me, wrapping her arms around me and rubbing up and down against me.

I already had the shower running, and she made it known she intended to join me. That too was unusual but, based on the way she was using her hands and lips, I wasn't complaining. I certainly didn't want to dissuade her. I don't know if mentioned it, but Nina is one sexy lady in my eyes. I have to say that was one of the most enjoyable and longest showers I have ever taken. By the time we finished, we were both shivering because all the hot water had run out.

We fell into bed together. I was exhausted, but Nina seemed to have gotten her second wind. I felt her hands on my cock and her lips caressing my nipples. Furthermore, I groaned, not from pleasure, but in near agony. Exhaustion was overwhelming me, but she seemed to take not notice.

Almost an hour later, I was laying on the bed. Now I was unable to go to sleep. Nina had snuggled into my side, her head on my shoulder, and was snoring lightly. I had time to think, having never seen or experienced the kind of passion and sexual energy that Nina had shown tonight. There was something odd and not quite right about the whole experience. It took a while, but I managed to fall asleep.

The next morning, I was out of bed at my usual 7 AM. I made coffee and sat down at the island bar in the middle of the kitchen. My mind was still nagged by the subtle changes I had observed in Nina. In the light of morning and with a cup of fresh coffee, I did my best to shrug my thoughts away. One part of me was explaining to myself that she had just had an extraordinary time at the party and had come home hyped and overexcited.

I was on my second cup of coffee when Nina came to the kitchen, stumbling sleepily. She got a cup of coffee, sat down next to me, and then grinned.

"That was one hell of a party."

I raised an eyebrow and looked at her.

"I guess. I didn't notice a lot of difference. What did you see and do that was different from all the others?"

I saw a flicker in her eye that I couldn't read before she answered.

"I don't know. I was just a little more intense than the others, I guess. Everyone was having such a good time, it was infectious."

I was searching my memory, trying to identify anything that stood out to me about that evening that would qualify as intense or infectious. I wasn't having much success. There were simply too many holes, too many missing pieces to make this puzzle work.

"I don't get it. Why don't you step me through the whole evening with detail about whom you talked to, what you talked about and what you were doing."

She frowned.

"I don't remember a lot of it. It all just flows together."

"I would think that anything so infectious and intense would stand out in your mind."

I saw that flicker in her eyes again. It disturbs me now more than ever.

"It wasn't one thing or one person. It was the whole vibe at the party."

I got up to pour more coffee. As I turned away from her, I casually spoke.

"No more parties. I don't like them and I don't have fun."

When I turned, she was looking at me in shock.

"But... We."

I cut her off.

"You heard me. No more of these parties with this crowd. We are done."

I saw her shock morph to anger.

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"No, we are not! I enjoy these people and the parties. I work with these people every day. You can't unilaterally demand that we stop going."

I leaned against the kitchen counter and cradled the coffee cup in both hands.

"Then change my mind. Tell me exactly what it was at that party last night that left you so amped up and aroused. Who or what was behind that. Then I might reconsider going back."

She started to speak and then leaned back in the chair, giving me a wary look.

"This seems a lot like a damned if I do and damned if I don't set up."

I simply shrugged.

"Perhaps so. Right now, only you know the truth. I am operating on guesses, suspicions, and innuendo. Something happened, and you obviously don't want me to know about it. That means you have lied to me by omission. Trust isn't built on lies, and without trust there can't be a marriage. So, Nina, what will it be."

I saw the sudden desperation on her face. That told me a lot. Nina was never good at games where she had to control her emotions and expressions. I could read her well enough to know that she was now working that sharp mind of hers to try to decide how much I knew what I knew, and how much she could afford to tell me.

"Oh, Pete. It really wasn't much. I got a little tipsy and Kurt, you know Kurt, the division manager at the plant, and I kissed. The whole thing happened so suddenly that I think it startled both of us. We giggled and backed away from each other. I guess it got me going."

I listened. When I finally sipped my coffee again, it was bitter and cold. Looking back, it mirrored my whole life at that point. Surprisingly, I didn't want to strangle her or him. In fact, my emotions were as black and cold as that coffee in my cup.

"That tells me a lot, Nina. First, you didn't see fit to tell me about, and then you tried to omit it and cover it up. Next, you make it sound so frivolous and innocent. From my standpoint, a kiss is not frivolous or innocent, especially when you think it needs to be hidden from me. When I add to the mix how wired and aroused you were when you got home, I have to surmise that the kiss you had with Kurt left you more aroused than you want to admit. I try not to assume things for which I don't have any real data, but in this case, I have to assume you hope to repeat that kiss and maybe see where it would lead."

I watched as her expression slipped from anger to denial and then to fear. She leaped toward me and grabbed my by the arms.

"No Pete. No. It's not like that. I didn't feel, don't feel, anything for him. It was just time, alcohol, and circumstances. There's nothing there. Nothing between us. I swear. God, I love you. Please. Believe me."

"I want to, but now there is that hint of suspicion. That's why I said no more. No more parties, especially with that crowd."

"But Pete. I work with most of them. I can't just quit going to the parties and associating with them. They are at work every day."

"Does that include Kurt?"

That faint flicker passed through her face again.

"Yes."

"Why. I thought he was a division manager. Why is he down in the accounting pool?"

She dropped her eyes.

"I think he comes to see me."

"Why would he do that? Doesn't he know you are married?"

"Yes, he knows."

"Then why does he keep coming around you?"

She suddenly sobbed.

"I guess I encouraged him."

I didn't say anything else. My dark heart suddenly turned into a raging fire. The cold had turned to raging heat.

"God Damn it, Nina. What the fuck? Did you encourage him? How? What did you do and say?"

Her sobs increased and a torrent of tears cascaded down her cheeks.

"It was fun and exciting. I liked the idea that another man found me that interesting. I liked the attention. I was wrong."

I tossed the coffee cup at the sink. It bounced off the side of the ceramic sink and dissolved into bits and shards. I didn't care. I looked at it and decided it was a lot like my heart at that moment.

"Nina, You swear to me that nothing else has happened. That the only thing that has passed between you and Kurt is one kiss at that party and some sexual innuendo at work?"

Nina looked up at me and pressed her open hands on my chest. I could feel her trembling. My hands were still hanging loosely at my sides.

"Yes Pete. Yes. I swear. Nothing but that kiss."

Looking at her, I couldn't see anything but abject fear in her eyes. I knew she was waiting to hear what I had to say. My mind wasn't operating as clearly as I wanted. I had to find time to think and get my emotions under control.

"I need to process all this. I am going to spend a few days at the lake, by myself. I will be back Tuesday."

"Pete. Don't leave me here. Take me with you. We can talk and work through this."

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"No. I need some time to myself. This will give you a chance to think about the flirting and encouragement. You can also think about that kiss and how it affected you. You need to decide if our me and our marriage, or Kurt and the excitement, is more important".

She put her face against my chest and sobbed again. I pushed her back gently and looked at her tear streaked face.

"I am not going to do anything drastic. I want some time alone to get my thoughts together. I promise we will talk when I get back. But you have to make some decisions as well."

She followed me upstairs as I gathered a few things, including my field boots and my cooler weather gear. I packed a small duffel bag and headed to the garage, tossing the bag in the back seat. It didn't take but a few minutes to gather my fishing gear and toss it in the back of my Highlander. Nina touched my arm.

"What about food?"

"I'll stop at the small store at the lake and stock up. I will need to get bait anyway."

I looked at her and then leaned in and kissed her softly on the lips. She was still standing in the garage as I turned down the street.

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Three days later, I turned back into the driveway. To my surprise, Nina was standing in almost the same place she had stood when I pulled out. I parked the Highlander and got out. She didn't move, waiting to see what I was going to do. Walking toward her, I held her and kissed her again.

"Ready to talk?"

She nodded mutely and held my hand as we walked into the house. She had a pot of coffee ready and waiting. She knew me well enough to know that I liked coffee when I talk and think. We sat down at the table, but instead of at opposite ends, we sat side by side.

"Did you think about what I asked you to think about?"

She nodded before she spoke.

"Almost the whole time you were gone."

"And?"

"At first I got mad. I was mad at you for making such a big deal of this whole thing. After a while, it began to dawn on me that the reason you were mad was because you loved me. I cried for half a day when I finally accepted that. Then I had to deal with why I let it happen and let it go so far. My initial reaction was that there was something wrong between us. I looked at us and our relationship very hard. I realized that we are fundamentally different. We need different things in our lives. You are so confident in yourself that you don't need much more. I have discovered that I am almost totally opposite. I don't have much self-confidence, and I need people to constantly reinforce my self-esteem. I think that is why I am so outgoing and effusive in public. When Kurt started paying attention to me, it was like a drug. I wanted more of it. God, Pete. I am so ashamed."

It was my turn to be a little shocked. Nina had told me things that gave me a new point of view. I had always considered Nina as supremely self-confident, and that her public persona was a reflection of that self-confidence. I had no idea that it was a lack of self-confidence that she was trying to overcome with her extroverted actions. I reached over and took her hand. She gave me a weak smile.

"I never understood. I thought you were one of the most self-confident people I knew, and that was what made you so gregarious and outgoing."

"I thought so too until I started thinking and looking at myself. The butterflies I would feel before we went to one of those parties was not anticipation but dread. I used that outgoing and friendly personality to overcome that. When I finally started mingling, the responses I got helped me boost my feelings of self-worth."

She looked over at me and squeezed my hand.

"What about you? What have you decided?"

I took a deep breath.

"It didn't take me long to discover that I knew one thing for sure. I figured I had to decide about whether my life was better with you or without you. There was no question. I took me about 5 minutes to reach that decision. I can't see any life without you in it. That was the easy decision. Then I had to decide how we proceed. Where do we go and how do we handle this."

She was listening raptly, still squeezing my hand so hard it hurt. I think she was fearful of what I was going to say.

"It helped a lot that we got to this before you did something with Kurt that you couldn't undo. I am still hurt that you willfully engaged in that kind of emotional entanglement. It certainly didn't help the trust factor. I am also a little concerned that you went as far as you did to try to minimize that truth and cover it up. That hurt also. But the bottom line is, I love you and I want you in my life. We will tackle this problem and work through it. But there are some conditions and some requirements that we must mutually agree too."

"Anything. I'll do anything, Pete, just don't leave me. Don't toss me aside."

"My first condition stands. No more of those parties."

"Ok. I agree."

"We have to decide together what to do about the people."

"That's not a problem, Pete. I turned in my resignation the day after you left. We don't have to see any of them again."

I looked at her in surprise.

"Well. That is one way of dealing with the problem. But I wished you would have waited until we talked about it and made a mutual decision."

"It would have been the same. I would have insisted. I realized that you would never be comfortable with that group again. I knew deep down that you didn't like them much."

She was more intuitive than I thought.

"I also want us to get some counseling. I think we both have some deep set emotional and psychological problems that need to be addressed, and I want to do it together."

She nodded but smiled through the tears welling in her eyes.

"Can I make a condition?"

"Of course."

"I want to have a baby."

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