Kate Evans started going through menopause just after her 45th birthday. Over the next few months it became more and more painful for Kate to have sex so she and her husband Robert had to stop having intercourse, and her desire for sex completely dissipated.
Robert did his best to be supportive as his wife adjusted to menopause.
As time went by Kate seemed happy, but Robert became depressed. It had been more than a year since they last made love when Kate finally decided she had to talk to Robert since he wouldn't talk to her.
"Robert...we need to talk." Kate said.
"About what?" Robert asked.
"About you." Kate said.
"What about me?" Robert asked.
"For the past several months you've been looking more and more depressed. I know you like to handle things on your own and get upset when I put my nose where you don't think it belongs, but damn it Robert it's obvious that something serious is bothering you. Talk to me...tell me what's wrong and maybe I can help you make it better." Kate said.
"Do you really want to know what has been bothering me for the past year?" Robert asked.
"Yes Robert, I'm your wife, I love you, and I can't stand to see you like this." Kate said.
"Okay Kate...I'll tell you. Kate over the past two years or so you have gone through a major change. I haven't changed though Kate...I'm still the same." Robert said.
"Robert...what are you talking about?" Kate asked.
"Sex Kate...I'm talking about sex." Robert said.
"Sex? Robert are you so selfish that you're blaming me for you being so depressed?" Kate asked.
"No Kate...I'm not blaming anyone. I know it's not your fault." Robert said.
"Well I'm glad that you aren't blaming me, but I'm really upset with you right now Robert. How could you be so selfish? Why do men always think with their dick?" Kate asked.
"Kate...maybe I am being a little selfish, but I have something to say...will you let me say it without interrupting?" Robert asked.
Kate crossed her arms across her chest and stared at Robert.
"Well...go ahead then." Kate said.
"Kate, I understand that God or nature decided that it was time to change your body and put you through menopause. I understand that it has become too physically painful for you to have intercourse. I understand that part of the change has been the complete loss of sex drive, and even any interest in sex. I understand all of that and I do not and will not ever blame you for those changes. You didn't choose to lose all desire to have sex. You didn't have any control over what happened to your body. I understand that for you sex is a thing of the past...I understand that Kate. The problem is that I haven't changed Kate. Nature has not put me through a dramatic event like it did to you. It would not be physically unbearable for me to have intercourse. My sex drive and desire has not been diminished. You used to call me your horny teddy bear. Well Kate...the teddy bear is still horny. I know that it may be selfish of me to still want sex when you are both unable and uninterested, but I can't help it Kate. I have needed relief so badly that over the past year I have been masturbating daily as if I was some 14 year old kid. Kate we're 46 years old. I hope to be with you for another 40 years at least, but the thought of 40 years without sex when I still have the drive and the desire...well Kate...that's pretty damn depressing. I love you with every fiber of my being Kate and I have come to accept that our sex life is over...but just because nature has taken your sex drive and desire away does not mean that I can just shut mine off." Robert said.
Robert broke down crying after baring his soul to his wife. Kate sat silently for a moment thinking about what Robert had said. Her initial reaction was that she should yell at him for being a selfish horny pervert, but she let his words sink in. The more she thought about it the sadder she got. She had thought Robert was being selfish, but she too was being selfish. Did she really expect him to just stop having any interest in sex simply because she had?
Kate's eyes filled with tears and she moved over to hold Robert.
"Robert I'm sorry that I said you were selfish. I'm sorry Robert...I hadn't even considered that your sex drive would remain the same as mine went away. I'm sorry Robert...I've lost all interest in sex to the point where I didn't even think that it might be why you were depressed. Robert...I...I don't know what I can do to make things better, but I want to try." Kate said.
Robert looked up into Kate's eyes.
"Kate I don't want you to do anything that you don't want to do." Robert said.
"I do want to do it Robert. I do want to do something to help make this better. I obviously still won't be able to have sex with you, but maybe there's something else I could do. Oh...do you still find me attractive?" Kate asked.
"Of course...you're as beautiful now as you've ever been." Robert said.
"Then what if I were to sit around naked so you could look at me while you masturbate? Would that help any?" Kate asked.
"You want to sit around naked so I can look at you while I masturbate?" Robert asked.
"If you think it would help." Kate said.
"Yes...yes I think it might help. Are you sure you're okay with it?" Robert asked.
"Robert...you've seen me naked thousands of times. I won't get anything out of it sexually, but I will be happy to know that it has helped you. Would you like me to do that for you?" Kate asked.
"Yes...I would like that." Robert said.
"Should we go and try it now?" Kate asked.
"Yes...if it's okay with you." Robert said.
Kate hugged Robert and kissed him.
"I want to do this for you Robert. Just because we can't have a normal sex life anymore doesn't mean that I can't continue to be a part of your sex life. Let's go upstairs and we can try it right now to see how you like it." Kate said.
She took Robert by the hand and led him up to their bedroom.
"Um...how do you want to...do this?" Kate asked.
"Well I've been sitting in this chair most of the time when I've done it recently so maybe if I sit here and you stand in front of me or sit on the end of the bed or something." Robert said.
"Okay. Should we just get undressed or do you want to get undressed first and then watch me?" Kate asked.
"I would love to watch you. Let me grab something first." Robert said.
He went into the bathroom and came back with some toilet paper.
"What's that for?" Kate asked.
"It's to keep me from making a mess." Robert said.
"Oh...okay." Kate said.
Robert got undressed and then sat down in the chair facing Kate who was standing at the end of their bed.
"Ready?" Kate asked.
"Ready." Robert said.
Kate started unbuttoning her blouse. She pulled it off and tossed it aside. She sat on the bed and pulled off her shoes and socks. She stood back up and unbuttoned and unzipped her shorts. She pushed them down until they fell around her ankles. She kicked them aside leaving her wearing just her bra and panties.
"Do you like what you see?" Kate asked.
"I've always liked it." Robert said.
"Good." Kate said.
She reached behind her back to release her bra. She slid it down her arms and tossed it to the side. She went to take her panties off next.
"Sweetheart wait...would you come over here close and take them off facing away from me and bending at the waist?" Robert asked.
Kate rolled her eyes.
"I guess I can." Kate said.
She walked over close to Robert, turned around, then pushed her panties down bending at the waist as she pushed them down. By bending at the waist she gave Robert a great view of her ass and her pussy.
"Thank you sweetheart." Robert said.
Kate straightened back up and turned around kicking her panties to the side.
"So what should I do now?" Kate asked.
"Just sit on the end of the bed with your legs open enough that I can look at you." Robert said.
Kate sat on the edge of the bed with her legs spread wide open. She wasn't getting anything out of it sexually, but it did make her feel good to see that Robert had an erection and he was stroking it. It made her feel even better to know that he still found her attractive enough after all their years together to want to look at her while he masturbated.
"Out of curiosity...how long does this take?" Kate asked.
"Do you already want to quit?" Robert asked.
"No, I was thinking that if it doesn't take very long maybe we could do it every night before you shower and go to bed." Kate said.
"That would be great. It won't take long...I'm getting close already." Robert said.
Robert's stroking got faster. A minute or so later he picked up the toilet paper and held it with his left hand while jerking himself over the edge with his right hand. He grunted and came. He stroked 4 thick ropes of cum out of his cock, then his entire body relaxed.
"Thank you Kate. That was amazing...you don't know how much it means to me." Robert said.
Kate walked over to Robert and bent down over him. She gave him a hug and kissed him lightly on the lips.
"I know how much sex used to mean to you Robert. I'm sorry that I didn't realize how unfair I had been to you. I'm willing to sit here naked and let you look at me while you take care of yourself. I want you to have at least some kind of sex life, and this is all I'm capable of." Kate said.
"I know sweetheart, and I really appreciate you doing this much. I love you and I love looking at your body." Robert said.
"Well...I'll go start on dinner. You should shower...dinner should be ready by the time you get downstairs." Kate said.
"Okay." Robert said.
Robert showered, pulled his clothes back on and went downstairs. Kate was putting dinner on the table. When she saw him walk in she smiled.
"There's that smile I've been missing lately." Kate said.
Kate kissed him.
"I'm sorry that I hadn't felt much like smiling lately Kate." Robert said.