I lurked on a few websites over the years but had most success on a site that sadly is now defunct, this is not where I found it, that was elsewhere. From that I have enduring relationships with two wives, one close enough to visit and use, the other on the other side of the Atlantic.
And I had a few that had online D/s relationships with. One was a wannabe that worked in a truck yard in the Midlands, and she had few if any limits. She wanted to be exposed in all her sluttish and deviant glory to her co-workers, all male, she being the only female there, to the extent of being used by the Dobermans of one of the mechanics, and stripped, gang fucked and used as a toilet while strung from the gantry hoist in the workshop. But like many online sluts that 'can't' share photos or vids because of a faulty phone, I doubted whether she genuinely carried out many of the tasks given to her.
That was the same for a wife and mother in Dublin who was just dripping to be abused and humiliated. She was rumbled by her daughter who then blackmailed her mother to be allowed to submit to me as well. Again, fun, and more sense they were indeed enjoying the reality of their fantasies.
And so it was from this background that I always keep an eye out for just that sort of depraved cunt masquerading as a vanilla and respectable wife and member of the community. They're the best sort, often just gagging to be controlled, told to do what they'd always imagined doing, be it fucking their arses with fingers, toys and vegetables, humiliation, piss play and drinking or exposure in public.