I would like to share a story that has profoundly affected the physical relationship between my wife and me. Let me say that we are very happily married and will soon celebrate our 20th anniversary, and while we had our share of struggles we've also had more joy and fulfillment than I could have hoped for. You see I got incredibly lucky the day I happened to ask my future bride to dance.
We fell in love quickly and after a whirlwind courtship married within 7 months. If you know what you want it doesn't take years to take action!
Our early lovemaking was special, and I remember making a comment like 'it won't always be this way', to which she took strong exception. Well I was right, it wasn't always to be that way, but the fact is it (our lovemaking) got much better. It has taken me years to appreciate just how rare and special she is. But after a year or so of marriage our lovemaking took a turn for the better, and it didn't come gradually. It happened one night when we had stopped to get a quick bite and have a few drinks at a nice restaurant.
Somehow, the topic of penis size came up in our conversation. I hadn't thought a great deal about that, and thought (and still do) I was OK if not exceptional in physical endowment. I had usually made a favorable impression on my partners, all modesty aside. She thought back and with the drinks relaxing her well beyond her usual polite reserve said out loud "Should I say anything?" "About what?" I inquired. "Well, I don't want to make you feel bad, and I love you very much, but when I was single I dated this guy named Dan who was very large."
I immediately noticed a flow of adrenaline and testosterone as she related the story. She was divorced from an unworthy 1st husband and had tried a video dating service to get back in the swing of things. Dan had come across as a nice guy who also had recently divorced. She said they went out a few times, and there was mutual attraction, so things progressed to physical intimacy.