It is always special.
In a long and happy 40 years of marriage, one can not always remember when those special acts of erotic loving spring from, was it when we had worked in the garden, or had we shared with the washing of the dishes, but, one certainly remembers the thrill, on reaching the climax, the body rocking conclusion of the actual act. Yes, that pulsating surge of energy, that flowed through the body.
My wife, has often said, that she gets an immense amount of pleasure at giving me pleasure, even if she, is not, at that current time aroused, its this unselfish love giving, to provide me with moments of supreme and exquisite release, that humbles me so, and makes my love for my wife, so intense and unlimited.
One common event that I consider to be always very special to me, is those times, when I leave the shower and return to the bedroom, naked, hurriedly using a towel to dry myself, to get dressed, and my wife is there also in the bedroom, doing some simple domestic chore, straightening the bed, combing her hair, putting on makeup, she looks around and notice that I have a need, and that it requires immediate attention. If it is not yet fully erect, it is certainly swinging and slapping my inner thighs.