First some background. I am a 42 year old white American living in the Northeast US. My wife, Nasrila, is a 46-year old Punjabi from Pakistan. We have three children, two girls and a boy and have been married for twenty years. We met when she was a foreign student at the university I attended. When we met she was very shy, had not been with a man in bed, although she had dated other students. Of course, she was from a conservative Muslim background, but after a lot of persistence I was able to breach her defenses. From there, we got married and she has been a very good lover, always ready to fuck and able to come many times in a session.
She still has a cute face and a great body: about 5'2", 130 lbs, 34C-25-38, nice brown breasts and nipples, a nice, almost African curve to her ass.
Although she has always been the hottest woman I have ever been with, and I have been the only man she has been with, I strayed from her when she went home to Pakistan. I got into a relationship with a woman who lives near me.
When she got back, I continued seeing the other woman once or twice a week, out of habit and some attachment too The other woman was a bit more uninhibited, but not as sexy as Nasrila.
I got caught when my wife, who was suspicious, went to my office and found her number, got her address and hired an investigator to follow her. When confronted, I foolishly confessed.
Nasrila was very angry and threatened divorce, but another strange thing happened. She started dressing and acting sexier, suggesting nights in motels, where I would tie her to the bed, use sex toys on her, massage her with oil. She told me about the men that made passes at her, saying that this one was cute, this one not so cute, etc. She wore low cut blouses and short skirts. We would go out and she would remark that a man is staring at her.
I started to tell her to stare back at the guys. She would, and we would have this fun thing with that. I started to think about her and another guy. After awhile, I told her about this and she said "I don't think you could take it." I thought about this a lot and decided if we just used the guy as a sex toy for my wife to get pleasure out of, it would be o.k. She still said no, but would say things like, "he would have to use a condom," "I wouldn't do it here near home," to lead me to believe that maybe she would do it. We went out to dance clubs, where we would split up and I would hang around while young guys would hit on her and dance with her.
I knew that her conservative Muslim background and self-image would never allow her to agree to a threesome that was set up beforehand, it would have to "just happen." The problem was how to make it happen.
I found this site. I posted some ads here and in other places looking for guys and suggestions. LOTS of losers. Typical questions, right off: "Does she do anal?" "Will she wear a garter belt and spikes?" "Does she like domination?"
I did find some responses from reasonably well-adjusted guys, would chat with them or talk on the phone. I went back and forth on it for a few months. Some guys were just TOO attractive.
Finally, I connected with Rodrigo. He is a 38 year old South American living in New York City, no Antonio Banderas, but nice enough, 5'9" goes to the gym, a professional. We go to New York on sort of sexy adventures, so his location was right.
The plan was this: Rodrigo and I would arrange to go to meet "by chance" at a restaurant. The opener was him asking her in Spanish if she was from his country, because she is frequently mistaken for a Latina. We would hang out, and I would ask him towards the end of our dinner the name of a good dance club, and he would say that he was out for the night and was going dancing too. That was the beginning, and we had a few other things planned.
Nasrila and I went to NYC on Memorial Day weekend, on Friday. After we checked into our hotel, I arranged to meet Rodrigo alone by saying that I wanted to go out and get some bottled water, snacks and a bottle of wine while she took a nap. I deliberately stayed at a large hotel in midtown Manhattan, for anonymity. We met so that I could check him out finally and set the plan in motion for the Saturday night. When I went back, I took Nasrila out for a tour of the few remaining Times Square porn places for some naughty thoughts for her.
The next evening, we went to the restaurant agreed to - a Spanish one in Chelsea. My heart was racing when I saw Rodrigo there, on his appetizer. I motioned to the waiter that I wanted a table in conversational proximity to his (didn't say that though). Sat down with the wife. She was wearing a blazer with a white cotton blouse and a skirt a little above the knee.
Ordered appetizer, bottle of wine. We both were on our second glass when Rodrigo asked Nasrila in Spanish where she was from. Nasrila knows enough Spanish to understand, and replied in English, laughing, "Pakistan." So then we picked up a little conversation, he was smooth and funny, just what was needed.