While separating from my wife, I tried online dating. I wasn't really looking for anything serious, so I just picked the "looking for fun" category and completed my profile with an appropriate narrative about being separated and just looking for no-strings fun for a while.
Many of the women on the site were looking for something serious, but that wasn't what I was aiming for. I was looking for women who were also looking to hook up. No strings. Most were either unhappily married or just looking for an affair.
I got chatting to one woman through the site and she was clearly married but her hubby had lost interest in her. He was therefore encouraging her to go out and have fun with other guys. After a few e-mails and a bit of live chat, we decided to meet up at a supermarket cafe halfway between her home and mine. Her hubby would be coming too, and I didn't know how that would work out, but I knew that I was reasonably safe in a supermarket cafe.
I arrived at the cafe, got myself a drink and sat down. It was bizarre, being sat in this cafe, shoppers all around me while I was waiting for this woman and her husband to arrive.
After about 15 minutes, the couple arrived. They looked totally normal and you'd not have thought that they were about to arrange an illicit sex meetup. They sat down and introduced themselves. The woman then said that the hubby was going to get us a drink and then he was going shopping. As we chatted, the drinks arrived and the hubby left to check out garden tools or something similarly boring.
I asked if he was OK with what was happening. She said that he was fine with it. They still had sex occasionally, but he wasn't really interested in her sexually anymore and wanted her to fuck other men. I suspected that he'd had an affair and he was just trying to lessen his guilt, but I didn't ask. I just wanted to fuck his wife!
She was dressed ordinarily, in jeans and a blouse top. I could see that she had a pretty good figure even though she wasn't slim. She was what many people would call "voluptuous" and the outfit covered that but didn't disguise her shape.
We arranged to meet up in a couple of weeks at my apartment in Manchester. She wouldn't be bringing the hubby the next time we met up, and it was pretty clear that she was up for a good steamy sex session. Her hubby came back and asked if we were getting on OK. She said "yes, we've arranged to meet up at his in a few weeks" he said that was fine and we stood up and said our goodbyes. She then gave me a bit of a shock by kissing me full on the lips before turning and leaving with her hubby.
The next couple of weeks went by slowly, but I had a few other irons in the fire so I wasn't starved of fun.
I chatted to her online and the meeting day eventually came around. On the day, I was really excited about what was likely to happen. These meets are great fun and the anticipation leading up to the event is a big part of that.