We were three drinks into the evening by the time we ordered food. So we were feeling pretty good. Despite Peter being in his upper 50s and about 10 years older than me, he could definitely hold his liquor. As a result, the conversation was flowing freely as I brought up his penchant for bedding married women.
"It's great because they never want anything long term. That would definitely get in the way. Oh, a bunch come back for seconds and thirds... And hell, even fourths sometimes... but it's just mutual satisfaction at that point. I make sure they're happy with their husbands before anything happens between us. It's not good if it's not just plain old fashioned fun!"
"Their husbands must seem so inadequate afterwards though. I mean... Your so big that the women must just love it!"
"They do. That's why so many come back for more. But it's different with me than it is with their husbands. For the most part they still love being with their husbands but it's just different. With their husband it's more love and comfort. With me it's much more physical satisfaction. I can give them something that most have never even considered possible. It's friendly and fun and mutual but... it's not love. And... there's a bit of 'bad girl' mixed in there too. Some of the women really get off knowing that they're doing something they're not supposed to be doing. And some just love the fact that I'm a lot bigger and longer lasting than their husbands. They get off on it."
"What do you mean?" I asked. "Like they actually tell you about their husbands?"
"Some do. Some like to tell me how much bigger and better I am than their husbands. They actually tell me that while it's happening."
"Oh my god that's so fucking hot!" I responded (the booze was clearly loosening my conversational filter!) "You must love hearing that... knowing that you're owning them!"
"Absolutely. That's the total thrill of it. Knowing I could have her all night if I wanted. Knowing that she's risking it all to be with me... and at that moment, I do own her. She wants me more than she wants her own husband.
"It's very hot and very satisfying. Not just for me but for her too. Not only is she having physically better sex than she's likely ever had before, but there's the emotional bad girl aspect where she's controlling things with her husband. She's getting her needs filled, when and where she wants. He doesn't control her at that moment. She's getting it on her terms with someone who is bigger, likely stronger, and flat out just better than he is. It's sort of her chance to secretly flip him off and get what's hers.